NSNC How Does It make You Feel.......

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You send a PM. You send an email. You send a Text. You forward references. You wait patiently with gift in hand. No Show No Call?

You receive references. You complete screening. You talk on the phone. You block out time. You’re dressed and everything is ready. No Show No Call?

How does this make you feel? Share your experiences!
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I just drive on.
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I just drive on. Originally Posted by pyramider
I knew starting this thread was like putting blood in the water, The great white starts circling the boat within an hour! LOL What took you so long Pyraminder? LOL

While in Las Vegas I just pictured you with a caulk board counting the NSNC'S laughing your ass off! After the third one, I didn't care about the NSNC, all I could think about what you were going to post next! It’s like watching someone fall right on their ass. It’s really not funny, but you just can't stop from laughing!

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I'm always shocked when I hear of ladies doing this. This is a business. No matter what happens you should always call and tell the client what is going on. Heck even an email will not hurt.
Happened twice this week. One I understood, one I didn't.
.... Heck even an email will not hurt. Originally Posted by ZarahAdams
I was just thinking that myself......
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Happened twice this week. One I understood, one I didn't. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
Charles, any chance she read your sig line? We need to color up your sig line Charles! How about.... Hey if you like to FUCK, I'm your guy! I got a better one... I use to be a rock star, now I just want someone to play with my balls! I saved the best for last..... I really appreciate ladies that fuck guys like me! LOL

Come on Charles.... you’re a stud, you need to advertise!
NCNS are inconsiderate they have no appreciation for your time and efforts. They show they don't care about you are their business, most NCNS because they doublebook or float on the assumption that there will always be more guys, unfortunately some are right.
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I knew starting this thread was like putting blood in the water, The great white starts circling the boat within an hour! LOL What took you so long Pyraminder? LOL

While in Las Vegas I just pictured you with a caulk board counting the NSNC'S laughing your ass off! After the third one, I didn't care about the NSNC, all I could think about what you were going to post next! It’s like watching someone fall right on their ass. It’s really not funny, but you just can't stop from laughing!
Originally Posted by Still Looking
Actually I felt your pain. But was glad it was happening to you and not me.

Years ago, I was traveling every week. I contacted a lady in Phoenix a week in advance. She advertised early morning specials. Another fucktard highly recommended her and her early morning special.

The night before she gave me the intersection to be at ten til our appointment. I was there and called per her instructions. No answer. I waited five minutes and called again. No answer. I waited another five minutes and called again. She answered.

She had a cock and bull story about having to take her kid to the ER the hour before my appointment. I call bs on the ER story. Number 1: ER visits always take longer than a hour. Always, its an universal truth, I have been in enough ERs during my life and every time its a long, drawn out ordeal. 2: I could hear her doing the dishes in the background. 3: She said she had an opening the next day in the afternoon.

I drove on.
I absolutely detest NC/NS. The sad part is they happen more often then not.
...I really appreciate ladies that fuck guys like me!... Originally Posted by Still Looking
The rest of us just appreciate ladies who fuck with guys like you...
...

How does this make you feel? Share your experiences! Originally Posted by Still Looking
Since I failed to address your original question in my previous post (in my lame attempt to be a smartass!) I'll do so here.

Many gentlemen, in a spirit of big-heartedness and forgiveness, seem to be able to redeem a NCNS. I usually can't. Even for legitimate reasons the NS part without the call seems always lame. When unforeseeable things happen, a call can almost always be made. So beyond this, I usually don't complete the mission. As Pyramider says, I usually drive on.

How does it make me feel? Usually sad for the lady that she doesn't understand how seriously these small TCB things affect her business.
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In 9 years...I have cancelled ONE appointment. I made sure I called the lady and I gave her at least 12 hours notice that I wasn't going to be able to keep my commitment. I'm a firm believer in...if you say you're going to do something, then do it. Now with that being said, I have had to postpone a couple sessions to a later time if something came up and I was unable to be at a certain place at the specified time...but I didn't cancel.

As far as NCNS on the ladies part...that's what plan B is for.

Yes it pisses me off to no end, but I'm not going to let it ruin my day. The worst part is, if I didn't want to see her, I wouldn't have made the appointment. It's more disappointment than anger...I guess.
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Actually I felt your pain. But was glad it was happening to you and not me.

Years ago, I was traveling every week. I contacted a lady in Phoenix a week in advance. She advertised early morning specials. Another fucktard highly recommended her and her early morning special.

The night before she gave me the intersection to be at ten til our appointment. I was there and called per her instructions. No answer. I waited five minutes and called again. No answer. I waited another five minutes and called again. She answered.

She had a cock and bull story about having to take her kid to the ER the hour before my appointment. I call bs on the ER story. Number 1: ER visits always take longer than a hour. Always, its an universal truth, I have been in enough ERs during my life and every time its a long, drawn out ordeal. 2: I could hear her doing the dishes in the background. 3: She said she had an opening the next day in the afternoon.

I drove on. Originally Posted by pyramider
I hear you Pyramider. Hearing the dishes, now that’s funny! Sometimes I think these gals think were stupid! The third NSNC was funny! I started getting gun shy, so I texted her 45 minutes before out appointment. She said she was on her way. Then I called at one minute after out appointment time. She answered and said her car wouldn't start. I said take a cab and you'll have money to fix your car! She said she needed to get her car taken care of first. This was 12:00 pm appointment (Noon). I get a text from her at almost midnight wanting to know if she could come over? I just ignored it!
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The rest of us just appreciate ladies who fuck with guys like you... Originally Posted by JDNorthface
Thank You... I think? LOL

Since I failed to address your original question in my previous post (in my lame attempt to be a smartass!) I'll do so here.

Many gentlemen, in a spirit of big-heartedness and forgiveness, seem to be able to redeem a NCNS. I usually can't. Even for legitimate reasons the NS part without the call seems always lame. When unforeseeable things happen, a call can almost always be made. So beyond this, I usually don't complete the mission. As Pyramider says, I usually drive on.

How does it make me feel? Usually sad for the lady that she doesn't understand how seriously these small TCB things affect her business. Originally Posted by JDNorthface
I hear you! The best one in Las Vegas was the one who was in the Casino drunk who said at least she answered the phone! I was supposed to be happy about that! Right up till the monument she started yelling at me and demanded I come downstairs and buy her shots! LOL