nice conversation with Mya Madison

Had a nice phone interaction with Mya Madison. Didnt meet but she was upfront about her likes and dislikes of one or two of my special requests. rather than just trying to get me to commit and then lowering the "no boom" when we met. Dont get me wrong she seems VERY openminded, and Im definitely going to see her at some point. I can handle a "no" if I know upfront. Just sayin
Absolutely. I'm perfectly fine respecting a provider's boundaries if she lets me know what they are upfront. Still, you'd be amazed how insistent some mongers are. I've shared stories with a few providers in the area and it astounds me how many requests they receive for bare everything, even after they've refused numerous times.