Keeping Secrets??

Have Any Ladies Here Not Received Review's From Hobbyist,Because They Loved Your Session??

Guys Do Y'all Like To Keep Certain Companions Secret??

Just Wondering No Hard Feelings???

Absolutely true...especially for most of my regulars. It's fine, not like I need another review at this point. A few years back that really bothered me. I think as you get more established, it isn't as important. It's very nice of guys to take their time to write reviews, but they pay us and they aren't obligated to do anything else, other than going home when their time is up.

On the contrary, if I have a great time with a lady, the first thing I want to do is write a review or at least tell other guys about my experience through PM, chat etc.

I know that the more business she receives, the more likely she is to stick around and if she's that amazing, I want her to stick around.

It's unrealistic to keep a companion/provider/escort secret from other people. Even if you don't write a review about her or don't mention her to anyone else, she is still going to be posting ads on ECCIE and other websites. The other guys who meet her are still going to write reviews on her and talk about her. It's going to happen.

If you want a lady to just be yours exclusively, then go look for a girlfriend or wife. Don't expect someone who has to meet new guys every day to make a living to be a secret just for you. Not practical and not fair to her.

Some guys wanna keep the ladies to themselves. I don’t get the logic tho. Lol

And also some of the ladies wanna keep their regulars to themselves. I’ve seen a few that got an attitude when I popped up with a review of somebody else.

It's my way of saying thank you for a great evening. No matter how established the lady is, there will be slow periods for her business. Glowing reviews smooth out those rough patches.

I agree with and earlier comment that I want a good provider to stay in this area and not move on to greener pastures. So I do my part to make this area the greenest pasture she can find.

On the contrary, if I have a great time with a lady, the first thing I want to do is write a review or at least tell other guys about my experience through PM, chat etc.

I know that the more business she receives, the more likely she is to stick around and if she's that amazing, I want her to stick around.

It's unrealistic to keep a companion/provider/escort secret from other people. Even if you don't write a review about her or don't mention her to anyone else, she is still going to be posting ads on ECCIE and other websites. The other guys who meet her are still going to write reviews on her and talk about her. It's going to happen.

If you want a lady to just be yours exclusively, then go look for a girlfriend or wife. Don't expect someone who has to meet new guys every day to make a living to be a secret just for you. Not practical and not fair to her. Originally Posted by VeryClean

Totally agree.

This is an info exchange site on providers that advertise here, not a get info and keep it to yourself site. If she advertises herself here, then her being reviewed here is logical. Of course, that also goes both ways as well. If the provider was below par according to a hobbyist that saw her BCD, then he should report that as well. Sure, there are times when I have seen providers and have not posted a review, but they are usually already heavily reviewed. No one reviews EVERY session do they?

The only secrets that I keep are of the encounters I have with strippers. I have rotation of 6 that I see at the club they work at that I get extras from and an additional few that I see OTC that I certainly am not going to review. Strippers do not advertise here nor do they want the attention or associate their name with a whore board.

If the session was good I will leave it up to the provider if she wants me to write a review or not.
If she wants a review I'll write a review. I might only post her advertised rate and activities also if that's her preference.

I guess to answer your question I would not keep a provider a secret unless SHE wanted me to.

I always, barring special circumstances, write a review, especially if the new lady I just saw is worth touting. Some of those special circumstances in the past have included ladies who specifically request no reviews. One even texted me twice after our session to remind me not to review her.

For my regulars, I seldom write an additional review, unless it's been over a year. Part of it is yes, I feel a little selfish. Not that I necessarily feel like letting more folks know about them would make my seeing them more difficult. Part of it is also the YMMV factor, as I have developed a very good rapport with some of them that, at least to me, would not translate into someone else's first time session. I find that with these ladies, my experience a few sessions in is a far different experience than our first together. So, another part of my typically not writing repeat reviews is not to raise unrealistic expectations.

Secrets seems to get out anyways
So Tell them ..

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For my regulars, I seldom write an additional review, unless it's been over a year. Part of it is yes, I feel a little selfish. Not that I necessarily feel like letting more folks know about them would make my seeing them more difficult. Part of it is also the YMMV factor, as I have developed a very good rapport with some of them that, at least to me, would not translate into someone else's first time session. I find that with these ladies, my experience a few sessions in is a far different experience than our first together. So, another part of my typically not writing repeat reviews is not to raise unrealistic expectations. Originally Posted by Ipthirteen1701

I agree 100% with this, even though Clean and others have some very good points. I hate to admit this, but it can make my mind cuckoo-for-cocoa-puffs when I see a review of my ATF's, and/or ads, "available now" on P411, whatever. I've been advised to not look at that stuff too much, my mind will go bonkers.

For this reason, I don't often write reviews, but I will review new ladies I see that I've never seen before. Please don't shoot me, thanks.


I'd like to hear from MORE ladies on this, as I hear some very, very different opinions on whether they want reviews (or not), including all these requests and comments I've heard:

NO! Don't Need/Want them - I've been specifically told NOT to write reviews, as she prefers to stay UTR, has plenty of good clients already, and just does not want or need the extra attention and activity a review can bring.

Yes, Please! - Some WANT the review, as they need more marketing, more clients, and relish and desire the extra attention a review will bring. Or - validation on the site.

Sigh, the Goombahs - I'm told that reviews can bring unwanted attention, texting, messages from goombahs, dufuses, and/or weirdos that she may not want to filter through. Some will tell me it's OK, others it's not OK to write a review, but as always - be truthful, polite, and tactful, but it's been very clear that a review can bring out the goombahs.

YMMV Factor - We all know the deal here. Some people just get along better with others, and I've been advised that too much detail can lead to another guy getting upset if he's not receiving the same experience. Sure, it's happened to me too.

Don't care either way - Some are perfectly neutral on this.


And on and on and on. OK, I fully understand from many of us on the MEN's side - it is desired to always write one for knowledge and awareness to the community. I just wanted to share what I hear from the Ladies' side, and would love to hear more thoughts on this from the ladies.

I agree 100% with this, even though Clean and others have some very good points. I hate to admit this, but it can make my mind cuckoo-for-cocoa-puffs when I see a review of my ATF's, and/or ads, "available now" on P411, whatever. I've been advised to not look at that stuff too much, my mind will go bonkers.

For this reason, I don't often write reviews, but I will review new ladies I see that I've never seen before. Please don't shoot me, thanks. Originally Posted by SchnellerFahrer

Thanks, SF. I will always share information I deem useful to the community at large. Of course, I think most of us experience the same little twinge of "jealousy" when we read intimate details between them and someone else. It's only human nature.

Of course, in addition to the whole "Information Exchange" aspect to this community, there's also the fact that the vast majority of we men here maintain free Premium Access to ROS and Men's Lounge privileges by having reviews approved by Moderators. The last time a provider instructed me, "No review. I mean it," I was a tiny bit peeved, since the previous lady I visited also asked me not to review her, though in a much more polite manner. At the time I was dipping a little low in my remaining PA access and had essentially been asked to leave 12 weeks of access on the table by two ladies I had decided to visit in great part due to having read their positive reviews on the board. I managed to keep afloat, so no harm in the long run. I just wanted to remind the ladies of this. Not all of us write reviews for the potential ego boost of virtual locker room high fives.

For me it wasn't I was keeping a secret but more like I was too lazy to write down a review as I overcomplicated what bro write down that eventually I didn't do a review on a few occasions.

Have Any Ladies Here Not Received Review's From Hobbyist,Because They Loved Your Session??

Guys Do Y'all Like To Keep Certain Companions Secret??

Just Wondering No Hard Feelings??? Originally Posted by GingerCakexxx

A qualified yes. Depends on the provider, and work load - how much time I have to sit at the computer - cause it's a bitch trying to create a review from a cell phone. Others - no; either because they are exclusive, UTR, and low volume or have a "policy" about no reviews. Don't know about other guys, but for the last 10 years, I'd been using eccie to gather more details about providers, often from their link on P411 to an eccie review, or something similar. Was reading but not writing reviews, until specifically asked by one last year to write her up a good review for a special offer on our next visit. Still, I don't write about every visit to the same provider.