Anonymity of a hobbist

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  • motor
  • 06-26-2011, 01:55 PM
seems to me that there are a lot, if not everyone on these sites that wish to keep their personal info a secret. Being either because they have a SO, high profile job, what ever. I am going to give this a change of pace. While I wont reveal my address, I will reveal my true name, I have no SO, high profile job or any other reason to be secretive about who I am. Some of you will disagreee wuth this......................so be it, don't care.

Nice to meet you all
Sorry, outing youreslf also could impact any one you have seen or reviewed. Bubba3452

have a wonderful day
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  • ~Ze~
  • 06-26-2011, 02:06 PM
By revealing your personal info you are exposing everyone connected to you as well....

You may not have much to lose... but can you take responsibility for what others might?
Nice to meet you JB! You have a great weekend Bro.
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I think it takes a certain amount of chutzpah to state your real name here, and I can't realistically see any down side to it. So I say: Hooray for you, sir!

still-asleep: I think the Bible-beater guy married to the erection-killer is Jim Baker, not ********.

I was thinking more this guy, James A. Baker III, Bush the Elder's Secretary of State. He looks like a hobbyist to me.

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this has nothing to do with anything but DAAAAAAMN that girl in you avatar is HAWT Jon!!!!!
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She's not any hotter than you, Jules. It's my turn next month, babe.
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i'll bet tammy faye was a hellcat in the sack!
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this has nothing to do with anything but DAAAAAAMN that girl in you avatar is HAWT Jon!!!!! Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar
A's been my SB on and off for the past year and I've known her for about 2 1/2 years. She's 22 yo, 5'2", 34DD-26-38. She's a certified personal trainer and bodybuilder. She's cute as hell, has a squeaky, little-girl's voice, and she's VERY high-maintenance. Unfortunately, Jules, she is NOT girl-friendly.

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seems to me that there are a lot, if not everyone on these sites that wish to keep their personal info a secret. Being either because they have a SO, high profile job, what ever. I am going to give this a change of pace. While I wont reveal my address, I will reveal my true name, I have no SO, high profile job or any other reason to be secretive about who I am. Some of you will disagreee wuth this......................so be it, don't care.

Nice to meet you all
No real names Bubba3452

have a wonderful day Originally Posted by motorload
Didn't you have a high profile job in the Reagan administration? (oops... just noticed that SJ posted the same thing... I guess lots of people here know of you. )
By revealing your personal info you are exposing everyone connected to you as well....

You may not have much to lose... but can you take responsibility for what others might? Originally Posted by ~Ze~
Plus the Internet is forever. Well not forever, but a resource that can be accessed easily for a very long time. You may not have anything to lose now...but what if that changes down the road.

Although you're name is common enough to deny anything down the road, why take the chance....
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I think it takes a certain amount of chutzpah to state your real name here, and I can't realistically see any down side to it. So I say: Hooray for you, sir!

still-asleep: I think the Bible-beater guy married to the erection-killer is Jim Baker, not ******.

I was thinking more this guy, James A. Baker III, Bush the Elder's Secretary of State. He looks like a hobbyist to me.

Originally Posted by ShysterJon
He's got pimp eyes.
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I'm going to toss this out there...

Do you know that everyone you know personally and professionally is NOT on eccie?

What if one has it out for you?

What if another of the Thousands on the board does know someone with your name, and has it in for that person.

What if a provider you've seen has a murder victim on her website membership, the police pull all her reviews, and connect the dots to you or one of the other same named guys? FYI, the first part has happened and the girl was astonished how much hobby info about her they had collected.
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  • motor
  • 06-26-2011, 04:23 PM
Plus the Internet is forever. Well not forever, but a resource that can be accessed easily for a very long time. You may not have anything to lose now...but what if that changes down the road.

Although you're name is common enough to deny anything down the road, why take the chance.... Originally Posted by outbound
im sure i have done worse things than being on an escort board.
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im sure i have done worse things than being on an escort board. Originally Posted by motorload
I like this guy. Haha.

There's a line spoken by Paden (played by Kevin Kline) in the movie "Silverado" that's always stuck in my mind: "I always figure you might as well approach life like everybody's your friend or nobody is; don't make much difference." I think that's true.

At the same time, never underestimate the capacity of people to be mean and vindictive. I could tell a helluva story about my ex-wife, this board, and my involvement with sugar babies that would make a compelling cautionary tale.

But at the same time: What are we if not products of our own free will, needs, and desires? We should each define what makes us happy and not let others bully and intimidate us because we don't conform to what THEY think should make us happy.

I believe "A coward dies a thousand deaths, a brave man dies but one." (The actual line is: "Cowards die many times before their deaths; The valiant never taste of death but once." William Shakespeare, Julius Caesar.) I want to live life as I define it, not as somebody else does. I certainly don't want to live life in fear. I want my life to be joyous and interesting. I don't want my life to be ruled by somebody else. If someone wants to use my activities against me, I say fuck 'em. I choose freedom, and "freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose." (Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster, "Me and Bobby McGee.")