Escort vs. Body-Rub ???

Lately I've had several would-be clients call and ask me for a body rub/massage appointment. Each time, I'm puzzled on how to respond. I don't know if that is their way of being discreet...or if they sincerely want that service. Then I am left wondering...why are they contacting an escort for that in the first place? I've never advertised those services and don't know the slightest what the terminology L1, L2 etc. means...and have even had requests for Body Rub L1...you get the picture. Each time I have politely responded ... "Of course, but you do realize I'm an escort although I can guaranty you a thrilling "Happy Ending"...None of these prospective clients actually set an appointment... It seems they expected me to be a masseuse. One of them responded ... "thanks but unfortunately I can't afford other than a body rub. I think my specials, etc are very competitive and since I advertise only as an escort...why would they expect body rub rates...half the price of my own or less? Does the line between the two need to be more clearly drawn...if not...what's really going on? Should I clearly state in showcase that I do not provide body rubs??? What do you all think?

I think what guys might want is a nice HJ combined with a great BBBJ without the rest of it (non GFE). You can offer a quickie session to satisfy them. There are guys who do want the massage with the happy ending but many are just looking for quick effective fun without the GFE for a lower donation. L1 is a HJ, L2 is a HJ with a BBBJ and L3 is FS. Some guys just enjoy the challenge of getting a LMT to "let loose" and enjoy the erotic experience of being seduced by the massage client.It is always hottt to passionately seduce the massage therapist and end up fucking her on her own table or in her own bed in her home.

A lot of escorts offer body rubs here lately, few of them know and actually perform massage techniques. Some guys really enjoy the stimulation of a womans touch.....or you have some guys who consider no penetration or oral, but hand stimulation not a form of cheating and less risky for their partners. From what I have seen in other threads "body rub" is a more safer legal term than "massuese" since for massage in theory you would need a license.

I think if you know definitely this is something you don't offer I would put it on your showcase, p411 page, etc that way guys won't assume you do or might. For the most part I assumee all providers to some extent can do body rubs, since its seems more like foreplay to me.

Thanks! that gives me something to think about...I appreciate the input!

Mercianna, it sounds like you need a FBSM. You should have the experience yourself so you know would better if you can or want to offer that service.

I think a lot of it stems from the guys wanting something cheap and fast as WC said -
L1 hj and L2 hj and bj for a half hour donation .
If you dont want this type client you may have to advertise NO Half hour rates available.
That and if you run specials sometimes guys think ..well she will dicker with us on price so ill see what i can get her down to by starting off with something cheap .
It just depends on what type client you want to see..lot of gals love doing the L1 and L2 clients because they can see 4 or 5 a day and just give massages and no FS

One other thing Merciana - I would imagine most of these guys are from BP and in your area it is very competitive and there are always deals to be had off backpage.
I dont know what percentage of guys you get from BP ad but that has a lot to do with it.

Mercianna, it sounds like you need a FBSM. You should have the experience yourself so you know would better if you can or want to offer that service. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

You know what Chica Chaser... I think you are right! I don't think I've ever even had a massage. In fact, I know I haven't. Now...who? what? when? and where? Oops almost forgot... and How Much???? LOL

To the OP, if the bodyrub requests are just BP losers trying to be cheap or quick I'd just pay them no mind.

If you do however decide to start offering FBSM please actually take some classes. During a massage you handle peoples spinal area, muscles, back and necks which most older men already have some sort of issue with. You can seriously hurt someone if you don't know what your doing.

Also, it takes a great deal of upper body strength to properly perform massage techniques on a fully grown man so keep that in mind as well.

I was thinking the same thing..alot of men have been asking me now i will rub your body but at the same rate as everything..

To the OP, if the bodyrub requests are just BP losers trying to be cheap or quick I'd just pay them no mind.

If you do however decide to start offering FBSM please actually take some classes. During a massage you handle peoples spinal area, muscles, back and necks which most older men already have some sort of issue with. You can seriously hurt someone if you don't know what your doing.

Also, it takes a great deal of upper body strength to properly perform massage techniques on a fully grown man so keep that in mind as well. Originally Posted by DaniellaDViante

I completely agree. Main reason I opt not to get a massage during down time. I had a provider give me a light massage and my back was outta wack for weeks. I would rather let a true professional give a massage.

I'm a newbie, getting ready to step out for my first experience. An erotic massage is exactly what I'm looking for. Not because it's cheap or quick, it's just what I'm into at this time. When the time comes for me to call a provider, I'm gonna call someone who specializes in this service.

Next time may be completely different. If I want GFE, I'll call someone who specializes in GFE. I May be the exception rather than the rule, just thought I'd share my pov

I agree with what many have said. When a Hobbyist request a Escort to do a "massage", what he is really asking for is a good blowjob, or a handjob.

Many men do not care for the "GFE" thing, they just want a pretty Lady to get them off.

Most men just like to feel a Lady touching them, it doesn't really matter if she knows what she is doing, her hands are enough.

Sometime I like a FBSM over full service. I have a favorite that does a great job FBSM, and the orgasm she produces for me leaves me spellbound. It starts of with total relaxation through the massage, and then she typically goes to a body slide type technique (btw, she could be a Victoria secret model), lots of breast play, and a hand job (combined with Russian) that blows my mind, she has ball caressing down to a science. For me, it takes a little stress off of myself to perform too, and just totally relax, and is usually less expensive than CFS.

this morning, I took a minute and checked out your web page Anna, and you definitely are not FBSM type provider, you are clearly a full service type of provider, I would not ask "FBSM only" if I were to inquire of your services, it would be the full mercianna