Forum Disappointment!

I arrive at a place in my thoughts today that I want to go to the first class seating on this plane ride of Eccie.(LOL)
So I click on this forum, for I know it will be a refreshing change to the known average or below average topics; or so I thought!
The first two or 3 threADs where to say the least shocking to read in this forum.
Car Dates, DTF which I had to google. And wording like ( IS YOU HERE) LOL

DID NOT EXPECT those type of things on this forum at all. I didn't even know you could post ads in this area much less car dates.

Most have been in positions where a hoopty was driven or you clipped coupons just to make it. Ate ramen noodle soups just to feed an empty stomach or ate from the dollar menu. When you needed the cheapest hotel just to stay the night etc. etc.
Hell some still do those things once and awhile now today but they sure shouldn't go to this forum to talk about those type of discounts, budgets deals. Talk in a (Hood Rat) way.
Sorry, I knew no better way to put that.

When you go to first class seating you expect just that.
When the seats are just as close together and you get treated exactly the same as the rest of the plane you feel kind of duped.
~Ze~'s Avatar
  • ~Ze~
  • 03-08-2018, 08:34 AM
The microaggressions are so heavy in that post. SMDH.

Face it, the class of people you are trying to tap into have already moved on from this forum. Those that have stuck around are UTR and wouldn't waste their time making posts like this or any of the other snide comments you've whored yourself on in this section.

Mods don't care.

/me moves along...
James1588's Avatar
I arrive at a place in my thoughts today that I want to go to the first class seating on this plane ride of Eccie.(LOL)
So I click on this forum, for I know it will be a refreshing change to the known average or below average topics; or so I thought!
The first two or 3 threADs where to say the least shocking to read in this forum.
Car Dates, DTF which I had to google. And wording like ( IS YOU HERE) LOL

... Originally Posted by Majichands
Majichands, you are very correct. This is really just an annex to the main discussion forum.

I think you and I ought to complain to the moderator of this forum!

Oh, wait ... there isn't one. Hmmmmm. That might explain a few things, all by itself.
Old-T's Avatar
  • Old-T
  • 03-08-2018, 12:21 PM
It used to be different, but for the last couple years it has outlived its usefulness.
If the mods aren't going to keep this place a little "classier" then they might as well close it.
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I think what the OP was trying to say, if I may empathize a bit, is that the forum world of Eccie was (understood to be) a forum for a classier kind of erotic tryst between OUTCALL or INCALL escorts and the seeker of the car date cheapens the role of everybody in seeking something so basic only a streetwalker is good for. That's how I took it. Unfortunately you can't pick the kinds of brains that follow a sex forum. It is what it do... (<---see what I did there lol)
Car Dates, DTF which I had to google. And wording like ( IS YOU HERE) LOL Originally Posted by Majichands
The first time I saw car dates mentioned in an ECCIE forum, I realized we were on a downhill slide... Christ, I haven't had a car date since.... Julie in 12th grade...

If the "car date" is in an Escalade, does it make it "Diamonds & Tuxedos" worthy..?!?

Whistle if you ever get up to Kansas City, Maj...

Most have been in positions where a hoopty was driven or you clipped coupons just to make it. Ate ramen noodle soups just to feed an empty stomach or ate from the dollar menu. When you needed the cheapest hotel just to stay the night etc. etc.
Hell some still do those things once and awhile now today but they sure shouldn't go to this forum to talk about those type of discounts, budgets deals. Talk in a (Hood Rat) way.
Sorry, I knew no better way to put that.

When you go to first class seating you expect just that.
When the seats are just as close together and you get treated exactly the same as the rest of the plane you feel kind of duped. Originally Posted by Majichands
You feel duped b/c this is more Motel 6 than Ritz Carlton? Kind of like real life outside the Eccie bubble, no?

Open your mind to the bigger world. The thought that only "discount people" drive "hoopties" eat "ramen" and "clip coupons" is many things, though naive comes to mind first. Google "Rich Dad Poor Dad" Or "The Millionaire Next Door."

/drives off in shitmobile to ramen place for a coupon clipping orgie
I GUESS I SAID IT WRONG.....
If I went on a forum for Spinner pics.
And all I saw was bbw pics..I would wonder why?
Not that bbw pics are not note worthy or lovely. But the forum is titled spinner pics.

This forum is for refine topics or so I thought.
Sorry if I offended anybody.. I just call it like I see it. And today that's what I saw from my view
I GUESS I SAID IT WRONG.....
If I went on a forum for Spinner pics.
And all I saw was bbw pics..I would wonder why?
Not that bbw pics are not note worthy or lovely. But the forum is titled spinner pics.

This forum is for refine topics or so I thought.
Sorry if I offended anybody.. I just call it like I see it. And today that's what I saw from my view Originally Posted by Majichands
jesus christ sorry u had to explain yourself what u were saying seemed kind of obvoius to even a dumb ass like me. amazing someone like kayc could not comprehend yet felt a need to chastise and ridicule you. i guess that just reenforces your point
I see what you're getting at butt, you probably said it in a way that seemed a little passive-aggressive. Look no further than the explanation of the Forum and it is easy to see what you meant to say:

Diamonds and Tuxedos
Glamour, elegance, and sophistication. That's what it's all about here in ECCIE's newest forum which caters to those with expensive tastes, lavish lifestyles, and an appetite for upscale entertainment.

Yes, there is always a few BBW photos in the "spinner thread" butt, that's what you get on a SHMB whether you were expecting it or not.

By the way, the whole idea of a D & T thread for "elegance and sophistication" was shot a long time ago... I'm surprised you're just noticing now!!
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I GUESS I SAID IT WRONG.....
If I went on a forum for Spinner pics.
And all I saw was bbw pics..I would wonder why?
Not that bbw pics are not note worthy or lovely. But the forum is titled spinner pics.

This forum is for refine topics or so I thought.
Sorry if I offended anybody.. I just call it like I see it. And today that's what I saw from my view Originally Posted by Majichands
You said nothing inappropriate and your post was well-stated. Many of us long for the old HDH Forum days when we gathered to banter about spirits and dining and travel, and perhaps a bawdy activity or two.

We, or at least I, never understood the transition to unmoderated space. Nevertheless, ladies and gents started moving to other, private forums and soon enough this particular forum was threadbare.

I certainly understand your post...and your sentiments.
Kizzablekarmel24's Avatar
I agree with you 100%
I'm disappointed too that this fourm took a nose dive from somewhat tasteful and sophisticated to gutter trash.

I arrive at a place in my thoughts today that I want to go to the first class seating on this plane ride of Eccie.(LOL)
So I click on this forum, for I know it will be a refreshing change to the known average or below average topics; or so I thought!
The first two or 3 threADs where to say the least shocking to read in this forum.
Car Dates, DTF which I had to google. And wording like ( IS YOU HERE) LOL

DID NOT EXPECT those type of things on this forum at all. I didn't even know you could post ads in this area much less car dates.

Most have been in positions where a hoopty was driven or you clipped coupons just to make it. Ate ramen noodle soups just to feed an empty stomach or ate from the dollar menu. When you needed the cheapest hotel just to stay the night etc. etc.
Hell some still do those things once and awhile now today but they sure shouldn't go to this forum to talk about those type of discounts, budgets deals. Talk in a (Hood Rat) way.
Sorry, I knew no better way to put that.

When you go to first class seating you expect just that.
When the seats are just as close together and you get treated exactly the same as the rest of the plane you feel kind of duped. Originally Posted by Majichands
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
Its not just this forum.
The whole site has simply become cute version of bp, and, as an added bonus, complete with trolls.
Danielle Silver's Avatar
The name calling, bashing, berating comments are out of control.. Seems like a lot of male handles are testosteroned out..

Seems like a bunch of angry people...

I’ve read some comments and I’ve been shocked and that’s a hard thing for me to be, nothing really shocks me and NO I’m not referring to the POLITiCAL FORUM..
caramelqtee mila's Avatar
You said nothing wrong love,you were 100% accurate in your description of the forum. Its called Tuxedo and Diamonds,not Britches and Rocks lol!