total newbie needs advice

ok i am a mwm 67 yo. getting little if any sex at home. but wife would be totally not ok with me seeing a provider. she is out of town for a few weeks. I am thinking i would more likley see a body rub provider than an escort as even the well reviewed escorts reviews note daty (my favorite sexual act) and bbbj but the risk of disease concerns me.
back to the point i know i am safe and harmless but the provider does not. so i have no references as i have never done this before. providers who do not require screening (backpage) are also not reviewed so there is another risk to the hobbiest of being mugged or worse
i looked into p411 and it is like 130 a year. and oyu can either fill in your profile or not. but i am guessing that if all the provider can see on p411 is that you are registered but she can not see you real name, address, etc she still will not consider you screened.
so is there any way to play with a reviewed provider without giving you name, address, etc.
i don't want a divorce just a bit of fun once in a while.
so what does a newbie do? yea i know watch porn and jack off. no i want the touch of a real woman and at my age a nice young firm hotbody one more time.

Welcome to the Hobby !!!

I know I say this alot but it's true just relax ! it's not as hard as you are thinking. There is alot of good reviews on girls that are Newbie friendly. Most of the girls go by there gut Feelings when there are talking/Texting to you and if they get a good feelin about you your in Just don't talk sex over the phone or in person you both know why your there so you really don't have to talk about it what I do is while I am having fun with some one I really don't know is I will let her know what I like but never ask Just a safe way to play . But most all the girls are very Dectreet . I know I give the girls my name but non of them know where I live. They don't ask about your name Address Etc. you need to give them a name so they will know what to call you lol but they don't ask for 2 forms of ID or anything lol. So don't worry so much if it a reviewed girl you should be in good hands.

Good advice from Sunday. I would also add that, no provider will ever force you to DATY or receive a BBBJ unless you want it. In fact many providers would probably prefer CBJ.
Like Sunday said, just relax, this is supposed to be fun.

Another option is to avoid providers altogether. I know you are wanting something on an intimate level but to play is safe. You could always go on the hunt for civies at a bar/club. You could frequent a strip club, find a girl you like, get dances from her, and maybe see if she will see you outside the club. Heck if you go to the right club, you might even get some action inside the club. A last option is to join Seeking Arrangement and hit up the tons of hotties on the site who will get intimate with you to help with school or pay some bills. Sugar Dating is now my preferred way to meet girls. That doesn't mean I won't still see providers, but I like talking with these girls and going out with them even if it doesn't lead to sex.

I'm pretty new myself, and I'd like to suggest something to you: Try a FBSM (full body sensual massage, with HE to start. I'd recommend Payton (Hidden Treasure) in Pensacola. I'm in nearly the same boat you are in, and I've found that a beautiful woman's touch is nearly as good as the sex other providers offer. In fact I was surprised that it wasn't the sex I was missing as much as it was the touch therapy that Payton provides. She's awesome. Check her reviews: Let me know what u think. Good luck.

By reading the OP post. I think you should start out slow. A FBSM might be in order to start with to wet your appetite then move on to a provider who is newbie friendly. If your still in the game after a few month it might be worth investing in P411 so you don't have to worry about keeping up with references. Its all about baby steps. It doesn't sound like he would be into the SB thing at this point in the game. Good luck and happy hobbying.

thanks nkd andrabbit. i do think fbsm is the way to go. i really want to see payton. i had found a sd/sb thing a while back but it was never consumated (i was just not ready to do that) and while she was a really nice kid (whose prior sd died), she had a drinking problem (and maybe drugs too) and not only wanted a regular sitpend but also wanted her "helper" to hang out. so i bowed out and thought it would be unfair to her to take it any further but her problems and her seeming need for a "relationship" of sorts just was not for me. i hope i can get to see payton. is it safe to give her my real name? as a married guy having the wife find out is just not acceptable. but i am 67 and having a beautiful young woman share some intimacy with me would be nice one more time .

I wouldn't ever give my RL info to a provider until you reach a comfort level. Just my opinion.