What does it take?

There are a zillion ladies in the DFW airport and half a zillion guys. But I am wondering. Guys, what does it take to:

1. Get you to book an appointment? I know men are "visual" creatures, so you have to like what you see. I also know rates, location and reviews come into play. But if all of these are almost identical, what makes you choose one lady over the other?

2. What keeps you going back? Obviously you have to click and have had a good time. I know the whole "she made me feel like I'm the only one" thing. But again, if this is almost identical to another lady you have visited, what does a lady do that makes you keep going back versus seeing somebody else?

1. Location is key for me. I like someone close who can meet rather quickly / spontaneously.

A good board persona is important to me. If you come across as someone that I like, I'll book. If not, I won't.

No drama allowed!

Hotlips, all those things you mention are not identical, at least not for me. First of all, there really aren't that many providers centrally located (i.e., near I-30). Take out the non-GFEs, the unreliables, the bad attitudes...well, then you get down to the ones I call.

The more plus signs I feel during our experience(s), the more likely I am to schedule a future date. If I find that I have a surprise spare 60+ minutes and the GFE is within round-trip drive time, then location, location, GFE location.

If you contact me frequently for donations and gifts, then you slip down on the list.

Personally, I am torn between experimentation (so many to choose from) and comfort which improves the GFE experience.

Just wish I did not have a cold this week.

There are sooo many beautiful women on here that it is extremely difficult to choose. There is a charisma that I find in some ladies photos that I do not see in others. Something that says hey you are about to have the best time of your life! Then based on the reviews available and comments they make in the discussions I narrow it down.

Close to the office so we can meet at a convient hour during the day, reasonable rates, and someone who is close to my age will get me to book the first appointment. A personal connection and a good visit will get me to come back.

I am very spontaneous and want to be able to call and book an appointment within two-three hours ,so location is also important ..I do know that this is not always possible to do,and I understand that ...but I also enjoy, kissing ,running my fingertips over her body as we undress each other,the fondling and kissing are all part of the arousal process ......then giving her a nice massage to start with .....her pleasure is certainly as important as mine ,at least to me it is ....and a certain amount of compatability is needed ...we all have standards we like to partake of and not everyone has the same standards ...but when we do .WOW it is a great time to enjoy over and over and over ....T

1. Must be outcall friendly.
2. Must offer package rates (none of the $$$/hour crap) if I'm booking multiple hours.
3. Must be intelligent, pretty, sexy and be able to handle me for two+ hours straight without complaint. I'll give you a break to drink water. That's it! Lol!
4. Must not be allergic and/or hate/fear ninja kitties.
5. Must not have an SO or if you do...don't tell me. It's a guilt thing for me (I'm single) - I'm weird, I know.
6. Must allow and enjoy DATY and DATO and know what it feckin' means! Don't say yes after reading my P411 profile only to show up saying you're not into it.
7. Must be a communist. I'm kidding...just making sure you're paying attention.
8. Chemistry is a must. If you like video/computer games, comic books, and Industrial music - we'll click easy. If not, no biggie...just be NQNS, COF and Greek friendly.
9. Don't fake moan! Out the feckin' door you'll go!
10. Word to the wise, don't book after seeing me. Ask around if you don't believe me.
11. BBBJ to me means going beyond the tip of my dick. If you can't do that or handle it, don't see me.
12. Must be able to handle a sarcastic/wise ass New Yorker (yeah, me).
13. Must not smoke or mask it at least so I can't tell and/or smell it on you!
14. Be on time when visiting me at my ninja kitties dojo!!!

Not too demanding...right...?

Location not as important for me.

"Click" is what sends me to repeat sessions. Tough to define, but for me, its about easy banter, something (s) in common to talk about, funny, easy to schedule, a bit flirtatious, a great kisser...

There are a zillion ladies in the DFW airport and half a zillion guys. But I am wondering. Guys, what does it take to:

1. Get you to book an appointment? I know men are "visual" creatures, so you have to like what you see. I also know rates, location and reviews come into play. But if all of these are almost identical, what makes you choose one lady over the other?

2. What keeps you going back? Obviously you have to click and have had a good time. I know the whole "she made me feel like I'm the only one" thing. But again, if this is almost identical to another lady you have visited, what does a lady do that makes you keep going back versus seeing somebody else? Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

Honestly...I would schedule with you, but your behavior on the old site, under your old name, is a complete turn-off.

Honestly...I would schedule with you, but your behavior on the old site, under your old name, is a complete turn-off. Originally Posted by steviewinwood

Although I don't recall asking a question where such a response was warranted, I'm ok with that too. Afterall, 3 years ago does make a difference, right? lmao

Just for the record, most folks who meet me say "you are not anything like I thought you were going to be"

I have no problem with a man not wanting to see me because I speak my mind. That just means he's not my kind of dude.

For me it's a number of things, but mainly reliability and flexibility. The ladies I choose to see are fairly close to me or are willing to come see me without charging a crazy amount.

Reliability is key because I can't always schedule days ahead of time. There are times when my kids are gone for the night, unexpectedly. If I'm told "I can't" too many times, I will stop asking.

What gets me to book? Good pictures! I don't mean studio either, although they are nice. I like to see exactly what I'm getting. I hate "fan club only" pics or pics so small that you can't even tell what it is. Last, a few crown and cokes get me searching pretty quick too.

I schedule at random based on pictures and the hope that ymmv will swing in my favor. I am currently looking for a 20yr old, blue eyed brunette with big boobs about 5'7 and 125lbs. I will overlook some of those requirements for mind numbing sex and a smile.

I have a long list that I have been meaning to go see again and a very short list of those I have seen more than once. I can't explain why I go back other than the first visit made me want more.

Honestly...I would schedule with you, but your behavior on the old site, under your old name, is a complete turn-off. Originally Posted by steviewinwood

Starting to look like a pattern. Does someone have a vendetta? If so it is pretty classless to do it here.