411 on what to expect

So I recently asked a provider why some reviews have her down as a bbbj and some a cbj
her reply was
"I dont talk details anywhere but in person"

oh, so she has ads on a hooker board, but won't give details which might lead to be buying time with her?
Is this common to get stonewalled?
or is she just having a bad day?

or is it me?
do I need to shower before sending PMs?
or not send pms when I'm nude?

BCPL, many ladies do not like to discuss services or money over the phone. Many reasons for this and I would say fear of you being associated with LE. The ladies you contacted obviously do not know you personally so to discuss something that is considered off limits puts up a red flag. To put something in an ad or profile is one thing but to ask a specific question for an immediate response to an unknown person or persons is dangerous.
The only thing these ladies see before making a date is your presence on the board. They see how you respond to different threads and make their decisions to see you based on that. Many times one post can trigger a nerve causing a lady to not want to see you.
Good luck.

BCPL, many ladies do not like to discuss services or money over the phone. Many reasons for this and I would say fear of you being associated with LE. The ladies you contacted obviously do not know you personally so to discuss something that is considered off limits puts up a red flag. To put something in an ad or profile is one thing but to ask a specific question for an immediate response to an unknown person or persons is dangerous.
The only thing these ladies see before making a date is your presence on the board. They see how you respond to different threads and make their decisions to see you based on that. Many times one post can trigger a nerve causing a lady to not want to see you.
Good luck. Originally Posted by noleftturn

yeah, I wasnt on the phone or email
I was asking a lady on this site why the reviews activites were different
ON THIS SITE. "information exchange" site
so even I was LE,(Im not) I'm on this site, where she has ads and reviews .

..so why a lady doesnt explain why she does BBBJ with one guy and CBJ with the other...only hurts her while at the same time makes no sense why she won't explain

see what Im saying?

... See what Im saying? Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

No.
Cause whether a convo is on phone, text, PM here, email on other systems, carrier pigeon, whatever, talking about any menu items with someone a gal hasn't actually previously dated is a valid security concern for any gal in this business.
(sigh, am I admitting I agree with wrong way driver?)

No.
Cause whether a convo is on phone, text, PM here, email on other systems, carrier pigeon, whatever, talking about any menu items with someone a gal hasn't actually previously dated is a valid security concern for any gal in this business.
(sigh, am I admitting I agree with wrong way driver?) Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

the convo was on here,. you know, where the username has reviews and a freakin showcase
so a convo via PM is a risk?
no, don't buy it

the last thing I want to do is meet a provider, not get the service I wanted, and leave...talk about a waste of time
so you guys think she give me a 411 because, aside from her reviews/ads/showcase, a PM is going to lead to trouble
yeah, no,

She may have weighed the value of your business against the risk involved and found it nota worthwhile risk. Where having a showcase here or reviews here is a worthwhile risk. If you don't like the response don't see her, easy solution.

BCPL, just as you have the option of choosing a lady to contact, she has the option to decide NOT to see someone. Posting a showcase does not mean she is required to see every man that is a member of this site. Read my entire first response again. Remember YMMV even when attempting to set a date.
noleftturn

To me that's a big difference and one that I'd want clarity on before I booked a date with a provider. Just saying.

Maybe the guy who got the CBJ had a bump on his dick? Who knows . . .

She may have weighed the value of your business against the risk involved and found it nota worthwhile risk. Where having a showcase here or reviews here is a worthwhile risk. If you don't like the response don't see her, easy solution. Originally Posted by shamrock55

correct
but I wont see her, I had no idea that was an option? glad you pointed that out!

my dilemma is I dont see any risk?
provider has reviews and a showcase....so a PM is a risk?
explain ?

Maybe the guy who got the CBJ had a bump on his dick? Who knows . . . Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

what do you mean:
"WHO KNOWS?""

the provider knows...right
which is why Im ASKING her

what do you mean:
"WHO KNOWS?""

the provider knows...right
which is why Im ASKING her

Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

You could always ask the guy who wrote the review, too.

Much ado about nothing. People respond in all sorts of manners either rationally or not so much. I see BCPL's point that all the information is laid out. And BCPL's record is plainly in view so it is hard to dismiss him as a lurker/LE in disguise. But she may have chosen to and not answer a simple goddamn question. Hell there are quite a few ladies who put up their menu on their showcase and sometimes their sig. If there is any risk letting people know what you do, I think that is as direct as answering questions. But people tend to have warped judgement and can't see the similarities. But whatever keeps them feeling safe I guess is all that matters?

BCPL I know you're just showing your disgust at the lack of logic around these parts. Sadly you are bound to find more. But please bring up the more entertaining pieces. This one is a bit banal to warrant any further discussion.

You could always ask the guy who wrote the review, too. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

I could, that would be easier htan writing a provider, right
and I did before writing to the provider and He told me
"I've said all I had to say in my review"

so I brought this thread up

BCPL I know you're just showing your disgust at the lack of logic around these parts. Sadly you are bound to find more. But please bring up the more entertaining pieces. This one is a bit banal to warrant any further discussion. Originally Posted by DrewBerryMoore

not disgust, I just am confused by the lack of logic
but the more we go over this, the more I realize its how people are, online.
people dont react with rudeness and zingers in real life
no drives past someone who is pullled off to the side of the road and yells some zinger at them

"DRIVE MUCH?!!!"

plus the provider or the john(whom I did contact but won't say his name since it was via Pm and I think ecccie gods frown upon that, but he didnt want to be bothered.
or else something elsewas going on, but occams razor and all.

I'll just see someone else who actually provides information to me
its not like we have a short supply of talent,