P411 - what the heck

Does anyone one else have issues getting providers to contact them back on P411? I have sent numerous messages to different providers with legit questions, and never receive a reply. I see the time stamps proving they are open, but alas, nothing. Even appointment requests I don't get replies back sometimes. I feel like it's impossible to get an appointment setup anymore. Anyone else have this problem?
Do you have any OK'S from providers, or have you just joined?
DallasRain's Avatar
Sometimes my P411 requests get sent to my spam folder in my gmail,so i have to check it daily....so maybe send the gals another requests to their personal email.
I've been a member for a couple years, and I'm plus 2. My ok's have been from nationally known providers too.
Some providers don't accept okays that are over a certain age, such as 6 months. You might want to consider asking the providers who gave the two okays to update them.
BigMikeinKC's Avatar
I don't know what you mean by "legit questions" but some providers will not respond if you discuss money or activities.
Every now and then I have that same problem. With me traveling a lot, it usually differs from city to city as far as the level of responses I get.

Some places providers dont message you back at all and in some cities they are usually on top of it.
I don't know what you mean by "legit questions" but some providers will not respond if you discuss money or activities. Originally Posted by BigMikeinKC
It's usually questions like trying to get an idea if traveling is an option, locations, time frames, etc. I never discuss activities or anything that could be extrude as incriminating. My ok's are older as with working 7 days a week most of the time, I don't get to participate as often as I'd like. Maybe as mentioned I should see if I can get them updated.
Personally, I get way less p411 requests now than I ever have...so I respond rather quickly. And my requests go to spam (too) but there is always another message to my primary inbox informing me of the request. So, not quite sure what's going on with those ladies.... But best of luck to you.
I usually send both a request and a private message(or email if they list one on profile) telling them I sent a request. I usually get some kind of response. PS if your ok's are too old some won't accept them.
JennaKae's Avatar
It's usually questions like trying to get an idea if traveling is an option, locations, time frames, etc. I never discuss activities or anything that could be extrude as incriminating. My ok's are older as with working 7 days a week most of the time, I don't get to participate as often as I'd like. Maybe as mentioned I should see if I can get them updated. Originally Posted by catpower
If you want a provider to 'update your okay' you will need to see them again.
Guest010418's Avatar
Get in touch with the Admin people at P411. I think they require providers to send responses within a certain time frame.
Fsn57's Avatar
  • Fsn57
  • 01-12-2016, 08:38 AM
PS if your ok's are too old some won't accept them. Originally Posted by hairyhoudini
I would hope they would at least have the courtesy to reply and state as much rather than just ignoring the contact.
I am by no means an old timer in the hobby, but I gave up on TCB long ago. Being diligent with communication is just not a trait a lot of ladies in this business possess, and they never will.
We respond to legitimate(not time wasting) inquiries, including P411, within less than 24 hours. It's called good business. Sorry you've been having issues, keep the faith lol