Male virgins

Today's shitpost is about guys that seek to lose their virginity to an escort. I hang out sometimes over on r/hookers on Reddit and this is a frequent topic of conversation - guys wanting to know if they should lose it to an escort, what to expect if they do, etc. Usually seems to be pretty young guys - mid-20s or so. I can definitely see where it would be a strong temptation for someone who had gotten to that age without getting any.

I'm curious as to what the ladies think. Has it ever come up? What did you think about it?

Personally I don't think it's a great idea. I think it's likely to give an extremely distorted view of non-P4P sexual relations that might prevent them from ever getting into a real world relationship. Of course, some might see that as a good thing. But, if one ever did have hopes of getting into a real world relationship, I suspect that starting out in P4P might be detrimental to that goal.

On the other hand...perhaps getting it out of the way could build up their confidence for non-P4P encounters.


Edit: Sheesh, it wasn't the reason I posted this, but I went over there to catch up and sure enough, there's a guy asking about losing his virginity, not just to any escort, but to a high profile porn star escort, Kendra Sunderland. Just...wow. I agree with one of the commenters there:

"A kissless virgin does not want to lose their virginity to Kendra Sunderland.
This is like a 16 y/o high school sophomore trying 60 y/o scotch, wine, whatever the hell.
Or a 3rd world beggar climbing into a Rolls Royce as their first car."

Horrible idea. The hottest person that dude will ever sleep with and he will pop in 30 seconds.

I saw a guy once who lost his virginity to Sydney Pure. His second appointment was Blonde Lily/Lily Blair, and I was his third...

It was awful for me. He was like an uncoordinated malfunctioning jackhammer. I think he had fun, though.

I would say it sounds depressing to a guy having no luck that has too but I would say if your going to. Finding someone who make the time worth it can build person up for the better

Horrible idea. The hottest person that dude will ever sleep with and he will pop in 30 seconds. Originally Posted by RJinLR

Yeah, the cost per minute is going to be off the charts on that one.

MSOG on her menu would be very important in this situation.

MSOG on her menu would be very important in this situation. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Yep. Gotta get that cost per ejaculation down!

I took ones V card when I was about 20. He was young too. & I only got on top and it was done in a couple seconds. Lol

I lost my V-Card long before I got into the hobby, so maybe I'm speaking out of place, but here goes:

I got into the hobby after a break-up that left me in a... weird place, emotionally. Not really sure how to explain it. My confidence with women was fairly low at that point, and the hobby has certainly helped me be more confident with women, as far as communication and, well, sexual performance.

I have mixed feelings on this. I lost my V-card to a provider. She could tell I was not experienced, she said something to that affect. Maybe she thought I was a malfunctioning uncoordinated jack hammer but she seemed to enjoy herself.
After a few visits with providers, I felt more confident.
You always remember your first time. I think if I waited a little longer I could of had my first time with an actual girl friend.

I have mixed feelings on this. I lost my V-card to a provider. She could tell I was not experienced, she said something to that affect. Maybe she thought I was a malfunctioning uncoordinated jack hammer but she seemed to enjoy herself.
After a few visits with providers, I felt more confident.
You always remember your first time. I think if I waited a little longer I could of had my first time with an actual girl friend. Originally Posted by Dave Smith

So in retrospect do you feel it was a net positive or a net negative that you lost it to a provider rather than a civilian?

I have mixed feelings on this. I lost my V-card to a provider. She could tell I was not experienced, she said something to that affect. Maybe she thought I was a malfunctioning uncoordinated jack hammer but she seemed to enjoy herself.
After a few visits with providers, I felt more confident.
You always remember your first time. I think if I waited a little longer I could of had my first time with an actual girl friend. Originally Posted by Dave Smith

Looking back, if providers were on the net back when I lost my card. I would have gladly called upon one instead of some married women's pick up of the night. Although I wouldn't have tried those 7 hours for anything

It is hard to say for sure. After my first provider, I decided to see one provider every 3 months. I started doing this in 1998, so I have done this for almost 20 years. If I had waited another year and if I was brave enough to ask the civilian, then I would have probably never started seeing providers. I end up marrying the civialin so I could of only been with one person if I had done things differently.

I lost my V-card to a provider. Originally Posted by Dave Smith

Thanks. Now I will never see a vCard attached to an email without thinking about this thread.

obTopic: I lost mine to a college girlfriend, but it was a close race between her and some streetwalker, as I could feel the pressure build up and something was going to blow before the year was over. Thankfully, the woman I started dating towards the end of my freshman year in college was a slut (Anthony Cortino: You'd have sex with anyone! Pepper Gianini: Of course I would. I'm a slut! That's what sluts do! --Jane Austen's Mafia! (film)) so once we started dating the countdown clock towards losing my virginity started ticking away, and I never realized it was measured in days...

Cheers,

bcg