What do you do if you and the provider don't mesh?

if you already 1/2 through the session....and things are not going well ....what do you do:

a leave unsatifed

b. try to finish

c.don't care

I just make the best of it. The ladies, and me, cannot be "on" all the time. And then sometimes there is just no chemistry, and that is not anyone's fault.

The few times I've been irked by a client enough to want to leave it's been within the first 10 minutes, I take $25 and return the rest before departing. No point in going forward, I hate feeling like I "have" to do anything or anyone..

There have been little mess ups like being too rough or such, but a swift correction has always got um back on track.

Why not D?

Start doing what it takes to know if there's chemistry before you meet her?

No since in both of us being miserable I would just say "I'm sorry this isn't working out, but I must leave".

Why not D?

Start doing what it takes to know if there's chemistry before you meet her? Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

+ 1 Tiff

even from an email you can tell if they have a personality that will mesh with yours... If not , it's no fun and then it's just a job

Well if your already 1/2 way through just suck it up and finish!

What would YOU do?

Seriously, it's common sense that IF you two adult are NOT clicking 1/2way through your session then it's best to end your session. Rather than continue through your hour long session only just to get your nut off, only to then bad mouth the lady afterwards to others.

This ADULT hobby lifestyle, is about making ADULT decisions. And that's about the easiest decision of them all.

And that's WHY I'm so damn selective in whom I choose to enjoy *dates* with. Because I want to click with the man I'm going to thoroughly enjoy. And I can tell that from the get go, via the COMMUNICATION that takes place.
That's where the *clicking* begins. And once your BCD, the clicking should only get better & better.

Then again, what do I know.........

if you already 1/2 through the session....and things are not going well ....what do you do:

a leave unsatifed

b. try to finish

c.don't care Originally Posted by pickupkid

Might as well try to finish unless she says she wants to stop and give you some of your money back. If she's keeping all of it I'm going to try to at least get off.

This has only happened to me a couple times, but personally to me if things aren't meshing or I'm just not his type I would rather he leaves with a full refund...then for him to come on here and publicly bash me like an asshole...

many people in this thread mention "chemistry" with a provider. which I think is funny because that's something a guy might want with an actuall steady girlfriend not a provider.you're not there to date her/court her/romance her/ or eventually walk down the aisle with her. you're there for sex not romance. (at least I'm there for sex not romance) and she's not certainly not meeting YOU for romance but for $$$$. now understand me, if you do have chemistry with a provider, great. and communicating/relating with them is important yet wanting/insisting on "chemistry" is alot to ask.

No one has said pump faster?

many people in this thread mention "chemistry" with a provider. which I think is funny because that's something a guy might want with an actuall steady girlfriend not a provider.you're not there to date her/court her/romance her/ or eventually walk down the aisle with her. you're there for sex not romance. (at least I'm there for sex not romance) and she's not certainly not meeting YOU for romance but for $$$$. now understand me, if you do have chemistry with a provider, great. and communicating/relating with them is important yet wanting/insisting on "chemistry" is alot to ask. Originally Posted by Solarsystem

First off I would never badmouth the lady. It is not either party's fault. What I do in situations like this, I put my game face on, roll up my sleeves and get down and dirty. This is a good opportunity for me to sharpen my acting skills.

But of course there are those times where you're expecting something a little different. Like she didn't quite present herself truthfully. You know those pictures where she shows she's 125lb but really 180lb.
I have found myself in the fetal position kneeling down underneath the shower scrubbing myself with a loofah nearly drawing blood think to myself why did I just do that. All in good fun, right?

And yes I am going to use the word chemistry. I have slept with women that were drop dead gorgeous but no chemistry. And then there's those occasions where the girl is not quite so attractive but we f*ck like bunnies. Now thats chemistry. I don't care if you're paying for it or not, you still have to have chemistry. Or at least I do because if you don't, it is just mechanical.

The few times I've been irked by a client enough to want to leave it's been within the first 10 minutes, I take $25 and return the rest before departing. No point in going forward, I hate feeling like I "have" to do anything or anyone.. Originally Posted by Calista_Syn

i agree. i been doing this for a few months and some guys have gotten ruff. so if i feel like its not going to work i keep half and will send him with the rest. not all guys are agressive only a few jerks. im not accusing you of being agressive by the way. some times it just doesnt work out...tiffani is right. try talking for the first few minutes to see hows things will go before you give her the envelope.

If there's absolutely NO chemistry and things aren't happening, then I offer his money back and tell him he can leave me whatever HE feels is fair ( and depending on how much time goes by). In the few instances in which things just weren't 'happening' I've done that, and the men have always been kind enough to leave enough for the time they did spend with me. However, he also has the option to leave me nothing, which thankfully has never happened.