So here is an explanation of the process.
1) There are no unescorted ladies allowed to attend other than the strippers that come from other clubs and are working there. Every Lady in attendance is sponsored by one of the guys that are on the invite list.
2) Ladies are expected to enter the club as well as leave the club with the same gentleman that sponsored their attendance.
3) Ladies are charged the same admission as the guys although it is typical for the guy that invites the lady to pay their admission. There are a few extra ladies that will WANT to attend and I usually email the guys their name/contact information looking for someone to sponsor them.
4) IF a guy wants to invite a lady to attend he needs to have already attended one of these gatherings prior OR be a high profile poster OR be someone that one of the core group involved has personal knowledge of.
5) BEFORE a guy invites a lady he needs to submit her name for clearance. Needless to say not EVERY lady is going to get cleared to attend. Although most are. To be honest, so far only 2 have been declined.
6) The number of ladies invited is normally kept to a ratio in line with the number of guys indicating they will attend. If a lady has attended previously and we already have too many coming she may not get cleared. Guys have indicated a preference for meeting new ladies at these as well as the primary focus of meeting strippers.
7) There are naturally board dynamics that come to play as well. There are some ladies whose opinions of strippers that join us has been publicly stated in a manner that we know we don't want those ladies talking to the gals that are partying with us from the club. They know who they are and seldom want to come anyway.
8) Once a ladies name is floated for consideration and a decision is made to allow him to invite her she is requested to contact one of a couple of us on the board via PM at which time these basic rules are explained to her and she acknowledges her willingness to abide by them.
9) Location, time and attendees are never allowed to be discussed prior to the event. Guys, you can't just reach out to a gal and say "HEY, there's a party Tuesday at Sugars, Wanna go with me?" Feel them out for general interest first, get them cleared and THEN you will be told it is OK to get specific.
10) ECCIE is not allowed to be discussed with any of the strippers or waitstaff at the clubs. We DO have a staff that KNOWs who we are and what we are about at 3 different clubs, but when we are in THEIR house, we are Strip Club Patrons there for a good time.
11) MOST of the Strippers and wait staff assume the ladies that come with some of us work at one of the other strip clubs in town. No one is ever to discuss providing with one of the gals.
12) Your attire must be casual to business appropriate. We don't want ladies showing up dressed like strippers or worse. Let's leave the provocative attire to the gals that work there. The best received of ladies visiting are typically done up in a nice party dress they could wear into Sullivans or DiMaggio s on a Friday Night.
13) You are allowed as well as encouraged to mix and mingle. You might not want to come on the arm of a guy that gets possessive or jealous. Some of the guys are shy and will sit there talking with other guys unless approached. Either myself of one of my CoHosts will usually walk a lady around and make some introductions if you ask us to.
What kind of ladies get invited?
It is assumed by some that if you are not an 18-24yo spinner your not getting invited. My personal tastes are NOT forced on the group.
Ladies that have attended in the past are a very diverse group including Vikki Lynn, Genesis Nicole, Sophie Bella, Caroline, Britney Bangs and many, many others.
The #1 quality ALL The ladies that have attended share has been that they are a hell of a lot of fun in a strip club! (Although we may have to limit Sophie Bella's attendance in the future for monopolizing ladies at times)
Unlike a Social...... The event is NOT about YOU. It is NOT about MEETING YOU. It is NOT about growing YOUR business.
The event is about a bunch of guys that like strippers coming together to meet and talk and enjoy the atmosphere of the club. If you wouldn't go to a Strip Club as part of your normal activities then coming to a luncheon is not the thing to do. We can meet you somewhere else.
Honestly.... Having Ladies along DOES serve a purpose as a lot of ladies that work at the club like entertaining other ladies and it creates a level of energy at times that is infectious..... Some guys, believe it or not, are shy and don't get dances for themselves but will buy you dances all day long enjoying the girl on girl interaction that ensues.....
Now.... Although I state that it is NOT about you........ There are certainly benefits for you..... You are exposed to a group of guys that spend money and the number of ladies, like yourself, in attendance is very limited....
Guys that would NEVER consider seeing you from your ads or board persona may meet you face to face and decide they want to get to know you better..... And you may meet a guy that you would never consider speaking to and end up with him as a regular in your lineup....Stranger things have happened.
So....
For those of you that asked....
or thought about asking.....
If you are interested....
reach out to one of your regulars and see if he is a part of the group and if he would be interested in bringing you along.....
Those that have joined us DO seem to have a good time.
The Down Side of Attending a Strip Club Function.
There are some ladies on the board that tend to have opinions not in line with mine as well as opinions of me that are totally inaccurate.
Although there are others involved with the planning, organization as well as execution of these luncheons, at the end of the day, it is my party....
So some ladies that have talked about attending or have attended, have caught flack from other ladies.
And it is unfortunate that there exists that kind of cattiness however it is understandable. One lady was branded a "Whispers Spy" at one time..... another shunned for attending......
Overtime I believe those ladies mended those fences.... But I will let you know there is a possibility you will catch some flack for coming.... There are a few wussy boys as well that might PM you and warn you off... See them for what they are.
And Strip Clubs and Strippers can become habit forming.... You can leave a lot of money behind in one of these places..... You may never have attended before and find yourself looking for every opportunity to attend in the future...... So if you have an addictive personality you might want to stay away.....
Or you could find yourself at the club 12 hours after the party ends.... one ankle being held by a guy on your right..... another by a guy on your left.... and some stripper with her head buried between your legs humming a merry tune!....
It's kind of a recurring theme!