Hard and rought vs nice and easy

yup another WP thread


I had a cage fight yesterday, and as the match progressed i started thinking about sex

not just sex but types of sex, locations, and then the intensity needed to give me an orgasm not just make me cum

anyway i got home and realized, i like daty but i'll never O from it, but hard rough sex for extended periods of time from curtain people will always make me pop my top


but hard rough from others isn't enjoyable at all.... but when they do soft and sensual it just not only feels better it's a long steady orgasm....

so which is better to you (open to male and female opinion) if you had the ENDURANCE to last the full hour doing either style, which would you prefer? which feels better does size matter?

does the persons personality carry weight based on how you go?

I enjoy more slow sensual.....mixed with lite roughness.......and daty is my skill I make sure to use every time.....gotta use that tongue before the manhood.

Combination of the two adds variety and in my experience leads to the most satisfaction for both!

Combination of the two adds variety and in my experience leads to the most satisfaction for both! Originally Posted by KRiggins

I agree!

I think it all depends on the individual, the activities and the moment. If you enjoy a particular individual and the chemistry is right who knows what experience you will have.

It depends on the setting for me, if I am to be sweet GFE then its sweet and slow to handpicked music.

if im in a rough cage fight mode (personal fav) then who has time to mess with music lol

I love being able to go in any direction!

I say go for the gold. Endure for 3 hours. Start off slow and sensual, lead into a relaxed but unforgiving session of daty (consuming her "O" from the depths of her soul and then you're off to the races for some slow and sensual, rough and tumble pounding pleasure that will invite "o" after "o" after "o".... When all is done you will look back on all that happened and wish to have went with the 5 hour take it or break it session... hehehe.

As for size... I can't say that I'm overly blessed in that department but I have stole a few "O's" from certain companions. I do feel that there must be an energy between those involved. In addition to your interesting questions CJ, I would like to say that it is important for the provider to be interested in her own pleasure and it is as equally important for the man to want his partner to be pleased. It's okay to be greedy sometimes but two givers will always end up taking their goal home at the end of the day.

I personally need my companion to want her own pleasure and it's even better when she demands it! Of course, my mind starts getting blurry at this point because I start thinking of "straight" couples swapping and straight (mfm) threesomes, foursomes and possibly fivesomes.... lol Sorry, I got off track... how embarrassing!

Hard and fast is my preference. Greek if possible with lots of dirty shit talking.

if you had the ENDURANCE to last the full hour doing either style, which would you prefer? Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

What do you mean "if"?? It usually takes me over an hour of non-stop sex before I pop. I guess it's one of the benefits of being older (although some may call it a curse). Definitely helps to be in shape too.

which feels better

I love everything from slow, sensual, heavy eye contact sex to choking/ slapping/ spanking/ bondage. It all depends on who I'm with!

does size matter?

I hope not for my sake

does the persons personality carry weight based on how you go?

Absolutely!! It definitely dictates where things go for me. I'm not going to be exploring kink with some doe-eyed lady that only wants mish, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't enjoy that too

+1 .....^.....^.....^

was moved, and the reason is???

MODS???

It's all situational.

I enjoy hard and fast if that's what will bring her the best (hardest?) O. It won't particularly do anything for me. A good mixture of slow, sensual, up to a good pace with plenty of dirty talk and I'll blow my top hard. And once I'm about to blow I can either keep it sensual or be a jackhammer. :lol