What’s with all the deposits?

So many girls want deposits now and half you can’t even tell if they’re legit or not. What ever happened to face to face cash in envelope on nightstand?
I’m too old school for this new scene, I don’t use any PayPal or cash apps I only use cash
Cherokeechief's Avatar
If they ask for a deposit on a in call pass it up. If out call then research and if it still doesn't feel right pass her up.
Their loss and you just saved money or worse.
IMHO
Y Guy58's Avatar
I agree with Chief on this. Only my favorite lady ever gets any money from me before I see her
Rooter's Avatar
It's probably just because there are so many flakes and time wasters anymore.
But I dont do deposits. If they require, I just pass.
ClarityE's Avatar
If they want a deposit and the ad has a picture with their face, ask them to send a selfie holding up X fingers. If legit, they shouldn't balk at this since their face is already out there.
Hot Summer's Avatar
Make sure to do your homework.
Making sure the lady is legit is your responsibility hun .
Most of us professionals take deposits when touring to help with hotels & travel expenses.
And it also makes sure you show up to your booking .
We receive so many NCNS now adays & with the cost of everything that can crush a your.
I hope that helps explain from my perspective.
This is a business for some of us.