why is it that the Old and Ugly seem to be the ones most into "fetish" play.

Are they just desperate for business and looking to fill the gaps between what is readily available and in abundant supply and cater to the curiosity seekers?

over the years i worked with people that were into alternative lifetyles. I was invited to a party or two that I went to, curious about what was out there.

My preference in companions from the time I was 30 has always been for 18-23yo young ladies. I've typically had what others considered an attractive young woman at my side throughout the last 40 years.

One thing I learned visiting a few of these parties and a club or two is that there was seldom ANYone other than the girl I brought that was of interest to me.

It appeared to me that all the swinger clubs and these parties catered to the old and ugly....

admittedly, I am in that category of being old and ugly.... But my tastes in a woman have never changed from the age of 30. Some might say I refuse to grow.... In all reality I refuse to settle....

Someone else summed it up saying that "kink fetishes among couples are primarily because the couple doesn't find each other physically attractive, so they have to "spice it up" with something to distract them from that fact".

Even here in the hobby..... The whores that cater to the fetish crowd are older and far from the most attractive available.

They always tend to advertise more as well as try to garner interest in themselves so the market for their wares is certainly not the same as it is for the young HWP ones we can select from.

Is it like the old time carnival geek/freak shows where some guys simply want to experience the wierd?

Are the whores that cater to fetish/kink coming from relationships where that was the only way to drum up interest?

I'm sure there are other questions.

... Some might say I refuse to grow ... Originally Posted by Whispers

I've heard you continue to grow and grow. And grow.

Niche market... desperation makes them scramble to pick up the scraps from the providers they can't compete with.
Then when it's slow... they can't figure out why guys don't want fingers and dildos shoved up their asses, or eat old hairy squirting granny pussy.

Swingers clubs are like the nude beaches here in the states...neither place is pleasant...

Are they just desperate for business and looking to fill the gaps between what is readily available and in abundant supply and cater to the curiosity seekers?

over the years i worked with people that were into alternative lifetyles. I was invited to a party or two that I went to, curious about what was out there.

My preference in companions from the time I was 30 has always been for 18-23yo young ladies. I've typically had what others considered an attractive young woman at my side throughout the last 40 years.

One thing I learned visiting a few of these parties and a club or two is that there was seldom ANYone other than the girl I brought that was of interest to me.

It appeared to me that all the swinger clubs and these parties catered to the old and ugly....

admittedly, I am in that category of being old and ugly.... But my tastes in a woman have never changed from the age of 30. Some might say I refuse to grow.... In all reality I refuse to settle....

Someone else summed it up saying that "kink fetishes among couples are primarily because the couple doesn't find each other physically attractive, so they have to "spice it up" with something to distract them from that fact".

Even here in the hobby..... The whores that cater to the fetish crowd are older and far from the most attractive available.

They always tend to advertise more as well as try to garner interest in themselves so the market for their wares is certainly not the same as it is for the young HWP ones we can select from.

Is it like the old time carnival geek/freak shows where some guys simply want to experience the wierd?

Are the whores that cater to fetish/kink coming from relationships where that was the only way to drum up interest?

I'm sure there are other questions. Originally Posted by Whispers

I agree with you. Many years ago (when I was in my 20's) I went to Hippy Hollow and have never gone back.I was disgusted with the visuals. I've been to a swingers club here in Austin 2 times and it was only an older crowd. I found nobody attractive.

If OP doesn't like "fetish",why is he spewing forth?
Run the fuck along and hit the chow trough somewhere...
For someone who brags incessantly 'bout all the hawt young pussy he slays,why would he even give a fat rat fuck 'bout any other ladies on this board?
I mean with the SO,SB and various strippers,how does he even have the time or inclination to come here and spew hater bs?
All he posts is grand tales and recently some sub-par smart phone pics of some stripper bimbettes.
For someone wa-a-ay over 300lbs.,OP sure slings a lot o' shit about knockin' down young pussy.
Yet nary a review...

Blah blah blah I'm a whore blah blah blah

Has anyone noticed that Observing talks more about the hawt young pussy i get than I do?

She's one jealous bitch it seems.....

Sorry m'amm... I don't pay to fuck OIOs

You need to get that lesbo some pussy W.
Maybe then she'll shut the fuck up.

lol the answer isn't that difficult. You are thinking way to hard. Most 18-23 year olds are just starting to have sex. They are still learning the ropes and the plane jane vanilla is still exciting and new. As we get older we get bored with the same shit different day and our interests and taste change. We grow as people. Some people are lucky and come into their experimental sexual phase early but it isn't as often. There are younger swingers out there but they are hard to find. Mainly because they had the same shit luck at hippy hallow and the 2 clubs there. If you want a fresh little barely legal to indulge your kinks you have to be lucky or take the time to introduce and train her. (a whole new pain in itself sometimes) Happy hunting my good Sir!

The 'lifestyle' parties I've been too have skewed mature (at least by calendar age) but there have certainly been people there younger than 30. And classifying a whole group of people as "ugly" isn't helpful, really.

It seems that those who brag alot are the ones that lie alot. But mostly ugly women have to do more to be desired. Jmo

Maybe the older folks are more comfortable with themselves.

At 25 I would of said eww to being an escort, swingers, etc. I didnt know Jack about sex looking back...

Im now an 'older' folk.

It seems that those who brag alot are the ones that lie alot. But mostly ugly women have to do more to be desired. Jmo Originally Posted by DogCatcher

Make sure you listen to Mata Leon... I mean DogCatcher Whispers.

Over/Under on how long it takes mods to ban him?