I imagine a lot of things are just a matter of opinion. There's foot fetishes, panty hose fetishes ,and other commonly known things that are at least, by most, considered to be fetishes. There are some that will think that's just a different sex act?
Can some fetishes stop being fetishes and become viewed as just sex act?
For example
A 20 year old guy who is into 60 year old women would probably be told that that is a fetish, right?
Fast forward 35 years and he still is into 60 year old women, in retrospect doesn't it just seem that he's simply into those ladies? After all he now 55 and going after 60 year olds. In 10 more years he'll be chasing younger women finally.
Will a cum fetish always be that? I don't see ladies playing with spooge, for our benefit or theirs ever not being considered a fetish.
Thoughts?