new to the hobby- bbbj, daty, dfk

i thought that most high end providers were pretty into safe sex for their own sake. and as a customer i am concerned about the risks of hiv etc from bbbj, daty (and eating pussy is my favorite sexaul act), etc. And i thought call girls did not kiss. educate me. i am older and so am looking at providers over 30 and probably over 40.

In a minute here Pyramider is going to tell you to run away from the hobby and never look back. I suggest you take his advice.

how do you hobbists enjoy the hobby and still feel safe re hiv etc or do you just roll the dice

You need to find another hobby. I hear trains are popular and time consuming.

She can't force you to BBBJ, DATY, DFK or anything else. Unless you're into that but I don't think that's where you're going.
If BBBJs frighten you, stick with CBJs. Skip the DATY and DFK or carry around some saran wrap.
If you're still scared then listen to pyramid man . . .
Try a glory hole. What you can't see won't hurt you.

They are being mean to you, this is the national forum---have the girl suck your dick, fuck her with a rubber, french kiss her,,and figure out what to do on the next date---if the hooker says cbj only---that's the identifier of who your with, try not to pay before that bullshit spills from her lips, pack your stuff and leave, asap. And don't get caught up in the 10 second bare dick sucking scam.

But, there is no advice that will stop you from learning the ropes through experience--just have fun with it..

i thought that most high end providers were pretty into safe sex for their own sake. and as a customer i am concerned about the risks of hiv etc from bbbj, daty (and eating pussy is my favorite sexaul act), etc. And i thought call girls did not kiss. educate me. i am older and so am looking at providers over 30 and probably over 40. Originally Posted by justforshsfl

First, you're right to be asking these questions at the dawn of your experience. Caution plays better to your enjoyment than 30 years of free-for-all only to find one day you've acquired something you can't divest yourself of.

Education is the solution to your fear. You won't find much real education here about STD's--most here have settled on an acceptable level of risk and moved on--for whatever reason. But go outside the site--MedHelp, CDC, etc. (reputable sites, only, please) and learn.

And yes, 'call girls' sometimes kiss. Oh my God, do they kiss...

Good call on the providers over 40. My favorite as well.

Best of it all to you.

Your fears are way overstated. It's up to you to stick to reputable research. You have a greater chance of catching something from a civvie.

Sounds like the hobby isn't for you.

HIV transmission through oral sex can happen but the risk is low. Watch for cuts in your mouth and also menstrual blood. I'd be more worried about catching the herp.

You're looking at the wrong hobby. Take the other poster's suggestion about model trains. Smh

Do your research on risks. Read the reviews; you can see the acts performed here with a free acct but to get the narrative ( Rest of the Story) you have to pay, or post your own review after the fact. Stay away from the bargain basement girls and you will be more likely to avoid complications. Ladies who treat this as a business know that their sexual health is critical to their success so they take the proper precautions.

All that said, the level of risk is higher than with most hobbies. You need to find what you are comfortable with, and stick to that.

She can't force you to BBBJ, DATY, DFK or anything else. Unless you're into that but I don't think that's where you're going.
If BBBJs frighten you, stick with CBJs. Skip the DATY and DFK or carry around some saran wrap.
If you're still scared then listen to pyramid man . . .
Try a glory hole. What you can't see won't hurt you. Originally Posted by cabletex7

Glory hole too funny

Honestly as bad as it sounds cause I know how much you ECCIE gentlemen love your GFE..
The risk for getting HIV is great when body fluids from DATY or BBBJ are transferred, now your body might not actually contract the virus because it fights it off.. BUT even if it did how would one know? Oh yeah you wouldn't unless you got tested..
Which is why I'm so shocked as to how many men and women are open to sharing cooties with a perfect stranger..

Honestly as bad as it sounds cause I know how much you ECCIE gentlemen love your GFE..
The risk for getting HIV is great when body fluids from DATY or BBBJ are transferred, now your body might not actually contract the virus because it fights it off.. BUT even if it did how would one know? Oh yeah you wouldn't unless you got tested..
Which is why I'm so shocked as to how many men and women are open to sharing cooties with a perfect stranger.. Originally Posted by Alluring_Amber

What's your point?

Just answering the OP question.