Massage , L1 ,2 ,

If someone is married or has a SO and gets a L1 massage is that considered cheating by most women ? How about L2 ?

Cheating is in the eye (or mouth) of the beholder

Ask your ol' lady! I always sort of figured L1 no but beyond that, yes IMHO.

yes it is cheating if your wife does not know or does not consent. I understand some here do not like to be reminded of that but it is what it is.

yes it is cheating if your wife does not know or does not consent. I understand some here do not like to be reminded of that but it is what it is. Originally Posted by TexRich

+1. Unless it's (a) your hand; (b) your wife's hand; or (c) she's aware and consents to it being neither (a) or (b) doing the L1 then you're cheating dude!

Cheating is in the eye (or mouth) of the beholder Originally Posted by drez63

It all depends on the divorce attorney.

I would like to thank Bill Clinton for teaching the younger generation that a blowjob was okay.


The true litmus test: If you can tell your S.O. about it, it is not cheating.

I'm waiting for the Bill Clinton reference.

Ooops. JG beat me to it. I knew it wouldn't take long.

Cheating in the eye of some ladies:

L anything (L1, L2, L3, LFK)
Any form of undress (probably includes undressing a lady on the street with your eyes)
D words: DFK, DATY
For some, flirting or chatting with a member of the opposite sex

I think the concept, if you can't tell your SO, you were cheating, is a pretty simple test.

Hell, if you are married and cruising this board, even without posting reviews, and your wife catches because you failed to wipe your cache or other browsers marriage killers, I bet she'd think you were cheating.

I've read someplace that there are many wives who feel if their husbands are looking at porn and jerking off then THAT is cheating also.

As noted, would your WIFE want you on a board devoted to prostitutes and the men who pay to fuck them?

would you think your wife was cheating if the roles were reversed ?

Its not cheating if she does not know about it.

Aaaah, bachelorhood.

It's Cheating as much as it is 5 o'clock somewhere!!