Is there some type of Providerbuzz site for BDSM clients.

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Okay, as a lot of us know some clients tend to be flakier than the hobbyist..

Lately on seems to be a Dallas problem maybe it's for lack of a dungeon here.. idk but i'll have people book and then don't show or say anything... They pay the deposit but never show..

Then call back several weeks later like it never happened.. Is there a type of report site for dangerous clients, time wasters, stalkers, constant rule breakers etc for the BDSM side. I try to get references at times however, some dommes

are really territorial over clients.. Or they are owned so it won't be reported that they are crazy... And even when I do succeed and get then verified i'm not warned of not so desirable traits or bad habits or past incidents...

I know we generally don't have to worry about LE.. since it's not really illegal to flog someone behind closed doors. Idc I still screen.. and those that set off my radar are sent off without an appointment.... if no such site exist for a different type of provider then maybe I should think about drafting one... For the BDSM Community....
You are right that many mistresses don't provide references for their clients like a provider might do for a hobbyist. There are many reasons for that (most I don't agree with, but hey, that's just my opinion... and I'm the consumer, so I will ALWAYS vote for myself in this).

There is not a central clearing house for noshows like some hobby areas have. Because of the difference in the activities, some clients never provide real names or even trackable handles.

But, just as an FYI, it is illegal in Texas to waive your rights to be physically assaulted. So a DA who is gunning for you CAN actually charge you with battery for flogging someone consensually... though I don't think I've ever heard of them doing so. It's not like they don't have better things to do.
There is a black list for vetted Pro Dommes on MF, FemDomme Scene and Yahoo that Mistress Winter runs.

Maitresse Renee
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But, just as an FYI, it is illegal in Texas to waive your rights to be physically assaulted. So a DA who is gunning for you CAN actually charge you with battery for flogging someone consensually... though I don't think I've ever heard of them doing so. It's not like they don't have better things to do. Originally Posted by Krunkman
Maybe a lawyer could answer better, but I did find consent as a defense in the code. I doubt any prosecutor would get very far. The client would have a reasonable expectation of what might happen. If the session gets out of hand they may have a case. But it seems that pursuing doms wouldn't be worth their time because they would have a solid defense.

§ 22.06. CONSENT AS DEFENSE TO ASSAULTIVE CONDUCT. The victim's effective consent or the actor's reasonable belief that the victim consented to the actor's conduct is a defense to prosecution under Section 22.01 (Assault), 22.02 (Aggravated Assault), or 22.05 (Deadly Conduct) if: (1) the conduct did not threaten or inflict serious bodily injury; or (2) the victim knew the conduct was a risk of: (A) his occupation; (B) recognized medical treatment; or (C) a scientific experiment conducted by recognized methods. Acts 1973, 63rd Leg., p. 883, ch. 399, § 1, eff. Jan. 1, 1974. Amended by Acts 1993, 73rd Leg., ch. 900, § 1.01, eff. Sept. 1, 1994.
What the Hell....
You are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!
I have been a Domme for 30 YEARS.
You are right!
Thanks!
The NCSF website has a good breakdown of various laws and explains it in pretty straightforward terms:

https://ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/...f-the-law.html
So what are the good sites for BDSM clients like provider buzz ? Or do we even know of one ?