In Regards to reviews..

Any possible way "ACTIVITIES" can be private just like ROS is?
Agree. If you're not a paying member or contributing by way of reviews, why should you know what the girl does?
YES especially when everyone can see it

what's the point of ROS if activities just breaks it down for you without the fantasies of how it was done lol
thebuffmantraples's Avatar
While I don't mind change! I see no problem with the activies short hand.
How else would you bring in the new guys?
I think everyone pays their dues at some point. Either by literally paying to become more than a registered member.. or by paying a lady he can write a review on.
Also, I agree that activities should be private.
Carolina Girl Holly's Avatar
neat idea, kinda like TER, because as I don't mind as a provider, it gives the guys some sort of privacy too especially from other providers

however, on the other hand, when I have an appointment with a fella, I like to see his reviews with other girls to see what he likes or is into so I'm prepared...

(idk each session is different depending on chemistry too) interesting thread...probably not going to change though
You have a point Miss Holly,

But that's what we could ask the ladies during our reference checks with the other providers that member has seen.
Most of the time before-hand on my appts. the fella's like to "request" how he would like the session to go..

I just think of it on a more personal level, for the ladies, or at me at least.

I just feel like what happens in the hobby should stay between the people who are IN THE HOBBY not "wondering"

IF they want to be curious hop on BP.

#TheresLevelsToThisShit
Queen I agree with u. I'm open in most areas of my life, but some things should be kept behind closed doors.
There was a huge back and forth about this in the Dallas forum a couple years ago. Guys that wrote reviews were slamming those that didn't...and it got to the subject of disclosing Activities. I didn't think it should be allowed; if a guy posts BBBJCIMNQNS are you really gonna get more info about it in ROS? Maybe her technique, but...

To me, it's like giving away the candy before the store opens for business. Or as this famous saying goes: Why buy the cow when the milk is free? I think it hurts the ECCIE bottom line, but...carry on...
it's not about not having "ACTIVITIES" it's just it should be private.

IF the member wants to know what she provides he could ask HER or the men that reviews her.

Back in CA there's this website called Humaniplex (it also has a SA board but isn't very popular) and instead of giving reviews we have safety ratings and it'll increase your level from 0-5
it gives safety on integrity , honestly, reliable, etc.
and all type of stuff.

Most providers have a menu so it isn't hard to ask at the same time he asks her if she's available
if a girl is a GFE provider I don't think she would be providing just CBJ & CFS lol its all common sense.
As a guy its nice to look at the review and see what type of service a provider might give even without the ROS. So if you make that private it would be nice to have a place to fill out on the profile that shows what she might let you do. Some girls are CBJ only, some GFE, some MSOG, Greek is another things some people key on, etc. I don't like just seeing a "yes" and the rate of the provider. It helps to get a value with the rate along with the services with that yes or no.
Stewiefrench's Avatar
I agree with ilr. I joined eccie because of the activities section. Ter and nr are worthless in that regard and the fact you can get PA by doing reviews and not having to pay is a plus. Showcases give a lot of info but many girls just say "read my reviews" in the activities section. If that was private newbies would have no idea what is offered.
thebuffmantraples's Avatar
I agree with ilr. I joined eccie because of the activities section. Ter and nr are worthless in that regard and the fact you can get PA by doing reviews and not having to pay is a plus. Showcases give a lot of info but many girls just say "read my reviews" in the activities section. If that was private newbies would have no idea what is offered. Originally Posted by Stewiefrench
That section makes it safer for nubes and the other huge population of quiet/non review writing guys. They go into the real app knowing what its truely available.
Keeps the hobby honest and THATS the POINT!?!