I have several gentlemen I have seen and over the course of my time doing this I have tried to figure out why there are some I prefer over others and some there is no way I would have any desire to see. For my personally my favorites really have nothing to do with their BCD but the attitudes and personalities. 99% of the gentlemen I have be clean,respectful and fun to be with. so aside from the superficial reason what draws you.Their posts?reviews?PM's? or is it just being able to say you saw ________?
+1 to Shayla. Although the first time with someone (her or in the "real" world) is always exciting, it is much better if you can connect and get to know someone. Initial attraction is what gets us started, but it is the muscle between the ears that keeps me going back for more.
I am strictly an ATF guy, I have been seeing my current ATF on a weekly basis for well over two years.
Of course, she appeals to me physically, every man has a certain type of Lady that seems to stimulate him visually more than others. She just has that certain look that I find extremely attractive. I really can't say exactly what particular physical trait appeals to me, it's sort of like you know it when you see it.
But aside from the physical, I think I really like Sarah because she does not have a pretentious bone in her body. What you see is exactly who she is, a very pleasant Lady to hang out with. I enjoy her on my arm when we are out, and I enjoy her in all ways possible when we are BCD.
You might think its my good looks or charming personality. That's not it. It's the way I make them feel. and I'm not talking about sex. That's why they want to see me again and again. All kidding a side I think that's what makes any atf. The way they make you feel.
My ATF is a Necromancer. Having powers over the dead, she takes my penis and performs a resurrection!
HaHa!
She also stalks me so I won't give the real answer.