Hobby Etiquette.

I know it's been talked about many times over the years, but we have many new members to eccie everyday and may not understand how to search and find the information they want or need know. I have recently had many questions like
" what can I ask you and what's not allowed", " how do I set something up with you". It seems the new guys are a little confused or just to excited to know what to do. What I can say is frustrating is when a gentleman emails me asking a bunch of questions and providing no information to know who he is.

So please feel free to list any proper screening info would be usefull, proper ways to request information from a lady or hobbyist. I would love to get a refresh course on hobby etiquette and I'm sure newbies will find this very helpfull.

This doesn't cover everything but it's a start. Shelby Lynn has this on her website.

http://www.theinternetescortshandboo...t-for-escorts/

Ok great read, the part that caught me attention most is the discreetness section.
It says an escort may not want any reviews, with this being a review driven forum what do you guys think of this? Would you see an escort that had her own personal web page but no reviews for you to read anywhere? Why or why not?

KK, with the number of providers out there and the fact that there are those who bait and switch, are flaky, cash and dash, pimped, and or simply not into it/burned out....
IMO
Seeing a provider without reviews or even a vouch from others is often avoided/risky.

That's what I would think so I'm wondering why an escort would not want reviews. I do understand the discreet aspect but is she able to attract enough clientele. I'm curios to know what would attract business without reviews what's the key to it?

Kandy...I told all my clients now that I don't want any reviews. But I am already established with 50 something great reviews. I don't like being described and talked about like I'm a piece of meat or an object...that's the reason why I don't want any more reviews. Maybe the lady already build her reputation?

This is just another reason that I like P411. You can state facts about your self, attach a few reviews, and list your activities, at least the ones you feel comfortable with. You shouldnt have to talk about it, its all in black and white. After that, it is all about a connection between you and the hobbiest, we all have different tastes, ymmv, and to me it is all part of the fun, meeting someone new, sometimes you strike out, other times it is a home run.

Sam, nothing I love more than a piece of choice USDA..............but I would always respect her wishes for no reviews.

As far as seeing someone without reviews, there have been some here that their reputations preceed them, and an established member will know of her or can always pm another member and ask for information.

But if I have a question, I say sorry for my ignorance, but do you........................, and if she's offended, than I apologize and move on elsewhere. We're only asking b/c we want an enjoyable experience with a lady that has caught our attention.

Samantha Seriously?????

I told all my clients now that I don't want any reviews. But I am already established with 50 something great reviews. I don't like being described and talked about like I'm a piece of meat or an object...that's the reason why I don't want any more reviews. Maybe the lady already build her reputation?

But that is what you are when you step into this forum.

That would be like us not wanting to be called tricks or marks.

Also women can change. Many of us have seen stellar providers go off of a cliff and without current reviews there is nothing to go by.

And if you don't allow reviews, I don't think you can post ads. But maybe you are perfectly established with your clientelle and don't need to run more ads. If so my hat is off to you!

I have seen mostly very established, well reviewed ladies. I prefer a sense of maturity, wit and intelligence as part of the experience. I have yet to have to ask "do you ........?" before meeting. If she does, it is recorded somewhere. To this end, I say Search Is Your Friend. After getting to know a lady, it becomes much easier to ask for this or that, in fact, frequently she offers - that would be the YMMV aspect of reviews.

To a person, the ladies I have met have been very comfortable discussing all aspects of encounters after we get to know each other. Doesn't mean they want to partake in all of them. But these discussions do lead to great second, third and fourth encounters.

Be a gentleman, treat others as you would like to be treated, don't be afraid to be curious, and an amazing number of doors will open to you.

Just my experience. As always, YMMV.

Best advice: its not a good sign if your chosen provider does not screen. If she doesn't care, or seek knowledge for her own safety, then she doesn't care about.you and your discretion and could be attracting attention.

Sorry, but if you participate on a review board, where every post is essentially an ad, it's hypocritical to want to have no reviews posted.

Next thing you know they will want us to shower or not take a dump at the incall.

Hey who says you can't take a dump...lol

SCREENING???? Darn it is next to impossible to screen in DFW. I call a provider who was used as a reference, and she tells me "I see so many guys I can't remember who I see. I cant tell you." I get this over and over and over!!!! it is amazing, that the first thing everyone screams in these forums is DID YOU SCREEN? but when we try it is like a dead end. Does no one keep a record of the guys they see? Just for giving references? Many ladies say they don't even ask him his name......SO HOW DO WE GO ABOUT SCREENING?