What can a provider or hobbyist say to turn you on or off?

Kayleehotchick's Avatar
Hi,

I hope this thread finds all of you and yours happy and well.

I turned a session down today based on something he said. It TOTALLY turned me off.

So it go me thinking. What can a provider or hobbyist say that would totally turn you on or off?

For me a turn on is when he talks about licking the kitty. Meeeooooow! That is HOT HOT HOT!!!!

A HUGE turn off was today when he told me he wanted to "finish in my face" Ewwwwwwwww. I'm a human, not a object so no thank you.

So what are some of the hottest things a person said to you via the hobby that turned you on and what are the lamest you heard?
pyramider's Avatar
Hello works well.
verygood69's Avatar
OMG I have never had my Kitty licked like that before!!!
Kayleehotchick's Avatar
LOL...well go lick your kitty then. Hehehehehe
Last Ride's Avatar
Finish quick. Your time is almost up.

When a women tells me to f** her while I am enjoying licking the kitty.
He wanted to finish "in your face" or "on your face"?
In = CIM
On = COF

Turnoff:
wheresthemoneycrapauntflofuck
When she tells me she wants to sit on my face!!
Turns me on every time

A HUGE turn off was today when he told me he wanted to "finish in my face" Ewwwwwwwww. I'm a human, not a object so no thank you. Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick
Statements like this turn me off. Some people like CIM or COF & they are still human.

Also: I used to be a man.
HUGE TURN OFF.
OldGrump's Avatar
Turn on:
Oh yes, you went to the right spot.
Take your time.
I can do this all day.

Turn off:
Can't you cum?
Just a sec while I take this call.
That's $ extra.
Turn off?

"Give me a few more minutes. My boyfriend is just leaving."
Kayleehotchick's Avatar
I don't mind CIM and COF but I do mind someone saying they want to "finish in my face".
Guest091314's Avatar
Im a natural GFE, it turns me on to be the temp wife and cuddle buddy.

Biggest turn offs are talking about other providers in session and wearing your wedding ring in session. I like IOP andthe ring kills it for me.
That's extra. Deal breaker for me.

Often I dont care about the "extra" but I still want the whole menu to be available even if I am only going to enjoy part of it.
Bob the Nailer's Avatar
Turn on:
Mmmm you lick my pussy so well.
I love sucking your cock

Maximum turn on: No one has ever licked me this good.

Turn off:
Do you want to do a double with my friend?
Are you going to cum soon?
Is this as hard as it gets? (While it may be true, you don't have to point it out! LOL)
yohollyrock's Avatar
Turn on-- "'Do you make all women feel this way?!!" Turn off-- No IOP