Help!

Ok this reference thing is out of control. I get it that these girls are trying to be safe. When they say references do they mean other guys.? Or girls u have hooked up with on this page? If so why would a girl doing this want or need a reference from another girl? If that is so, what would they say? They could say anything because they are mad that u are trying to hook up with someone else. This is a legit question. Plz explain what they want regarding references. Thank u.

Us ladies ask for references because we want to be safe about who we see.No one wants to get chopped up and thrown into someones trunk.no one wants to get arrested.no wants to get hurt.References can be ladies that you've seen before that can vouch for you and say that you are safe to see.Or there are verification sites that can also vouch for you.For example p411.The ladies that don't ask for any type of references are playing with fire

Thanks for the input. I totally understand.❤️

Try posting a request for a newbie friendly provider in the ISO Forum on your local Board.