I have had several in my time. Some have not turned out so good because of the lack of recon on my part.granted, over nighters need to be with some one you have seen before and are comfortable with.
Ladies and Gents, what are your thoughts on this. If a client wants to see you for an over nighter, do you require so much time out, and so much time in? Or would you be happy with all the time being in.
Gents, when you to an Over nighter, do you like to go out, or spend all our time in.
Originally Posted by llubder
No two overnights are the same, even with same patrons.
Usually when I am seeing someone for an overnight I want to make sure that we are on the same page as far as expectations are concerned.
It is very hard to generalize, but most of the time my overnights include fair amount of social time at the gentleman's request.
There is a reason he is booking an overnight and the reason most of the time being that he has certain event he wants me to attend with him in addition to us spending generous amount of private time. There were overnights where at the gentleman's insistence play was very limited and there were overnights where fun never stopped.
I personally prefer my Clock Free dinner date to an overnight when I am in town and 24h engagement to an overnight when I am traveling.
I would say figure out what exactly is YOUR ideal overnight, communicate it to the lady and if both of you agree to the game plan, have fun!
Lina