Is it just me??

sterling1's Avatar
I was wondering does it bother anyone when you send a pm to a lady and she does not reply? I know I was not disrespectful to her. She read it and just plain does not reply... I think it's disrespectful and rude myself but maybe it's my age. I am a businessman and know if you don't return messages or calls I lose future business..jmho
It's probably just a timing issue. Not as easy to move onto the next one as it is north or south of this area but keep trying.
sparta69's Avatar
A lot of these ladies get bombarded with PMs.....
I've had that happen many times. I don't understand it. You would think they would want the business.
I totally understand your feelings on this subject.

Unfortunately when it comes to this hobby, some of the girls are not educated in business 101.

You would think that common sense and logic is apart of running ones business but majority of the time, beauty and bedroom skills has nothing to do with being smart or knowing how to run a business.

Fortunately, there are plenty of beautiful, smart and classy woman to choose from who do respond. It might take a few hours, days, months to find the right one but there are plenty of fish in the sea that will enjoy your company. So keep smiling!
Ranchhand's Avatar
I think some, not all ladies,do not respond to a pm from a gent that doesnt have any reviews. For example I have had this happen to me, and im fairly sure its because I have no reviews. Ladies have to have a way to screen us, and since they are probably not going to see a newbi or someone with no reviews, they think whats the point. Ranch
NewWave's Avatar
There is also the sad reality that demand will always exceed supply with female providers. In other words, some can afford to have shitty TCB because they will always have guys sending PMs, blowing up their phone. It's like the Soup nazi from Seinfeld, he gets away with treating customers like dirt because they still line up for his soup.

Obviously there are some limits to shitty TCB, and some providers have to step up their game once word of mouth gets too bad. But as long as you're a hot commodity with tons of demand, you can get away with inflated value and service tbh.