In SUB/ DOM role play, wich role do you prefer???

Hello Lovelies!

I have recently become very interested in the world of SUB/DOM role play thanks to a little book called Fifty Shades of Grey. I am new to the hobby world and am not sure how to go about experimenting properly.

Would any of my fellow providers or wonderful Eccie members have any advice for me??
Id like to try both being a Submissive and a Dominant. I'm more of a natural Submissive but i'm willing to try being the Dominant for a willing Sub.

I know somethings about sub dom role play but It can go pretty far, from spanking and hair pulling to nipple clamps and caning. What are some basic tips and tricks to start having some fun experimenting in this world? What should I try and not try? What do you as member want to try?

Tell Me your Secrets

<3
Ariel Amour

total sub here!

I would tell you all of my secrets...you are a beautiful woman....


TexasCowboy

ariel, there is lots to learn about Dom/sub interactions.
i suggest you post in the "Another Realm" forum that's on the eccie home page.
i think you'd get better suggestions on websites, books, etc. from the folks in there.

and remember, it's not for the faint hearted.
it takes a lot of time and a LOT OF TRUST for a D/s interaction to go well.
this is not like "oh, i'd like to add <insertMildFetishOrOtherActivi ty> into my playbook."
it is serious and can be dangerous if you dont know what you're doing or getting into to.

play safe!!!