Any recommendations for a newbie?

I’m a 23 year old virgin and looking to change that soon. Being doing my own research and taking in all the information on this site and others about escorts. That said I’m also socially awkaward and shy as hell. Any recommendations for providers that are newbie friendly and would understand my social anxiety?

If this isn’t the right place to post this, I apologize and understand if this post gets deleted.

AMPs seem like they would be a good way to ease into this.

My recommendation is not to get attached. This is a business for all the ladies you will see. They will not really care about you and their affections are only passing and contingent on donations. Amps are a good place to start. I recommend not just seeing a single lady. Go and see a couple of reputatble ones. It will break the spell of attachment most of us feel when we first start sleeping around. Your virginity puts you in danger of becoming, captain-save-a-hoe. You absolutely do not want to be that guy. Get past that and play safe and you will be fine.

Find out where Luna is at, pay for an hour and explain your circumstances.

Agree with loboy. It can be unsafe out there (it’s ABQ) in more ways than one. Stick with someone with multiple yes reviews (luna’s a great place to start). Be very careful when meeting someone new. See Luna, Sasa (mariejanie’s in town) and slowly, carefully branch out from there.

Yeah go to an amp. Safer and better value.

From my experience amps give the best bang for the buck and is less risky, I have seen some providers prior to joining this board and I have never repeated a single one the only one I can kinda recommend is Spencer. She talks a lot about random (and usually I'm a man of few words) stuff but she's a really nice lady.

I am in ABQ on business fairly regularly and it seems like finding an AMP that doesn't offer FS is nigh impossible. Take off all your clothes and try to have an erection on the flip. Just check a few reports around here, make a list of maybe four places, and then be ready to move to the next if the provider is busy or in her sixties.



That said... I would strongly encourage you to look for a "real" provider. If you are that nervous then there is a good chance you will fail the LEO test which will make you feel even more anxious.
And AMP providers are very much about volume and the vast majority just want you to cum so they can go back to watching netflix while waiting for the next cock to walk in the door.


And if you want something "in between" and are able to get to Denver: Last year I had an FBSM/BDSM session with a provider out near Boulder who very much was a lot more interested in the emotional connection and "vulnerability" aspect of things. Only got a handy but... it may have been the best handy in my life. She said to not post reviews as she doesn't want to deal with dipshits but feel free to PM me and I can point her out. Won't pop your cherry but probably what you actually "need".




In terms of "real" escorts... ABQ is very miss unless you have a thing for road rash and meth-face. I recommend checking sites like tryst and PD and then cross referencing here for reviews/scam checks. My general experience is that escorts people "like" tend to either have good personalities (because most of us care more about the connection than the ejaculation, even if we don't believe that) or are ridiculously good at their jobs. And the former tend to be really good at listening and adjusting their sessions accordingly if you are mature enough to talk to them. And the latter... holy shit.



That said, if you can swing a road trip then I would strongly encourage heading to Denver for a weekend. Much better selection



THAT being said: You're still just a kid and 23 is nothing. Regardless of what Stifler said, there is absolutely no reason you need to rush into sex and you will have a much better time if you are more comfortable with yourself. If you want to fuck, fuck. But if you think you NEED to fuck to "be a man" or some stupid bullshit: you really don't.


And THAT being said. A few months back I had a spectacular time with an FBSM/BDSM provider out near Boulder. She specifically asked me to not review her on "the usual sites" as she doesn't want assholes, but she genuinely seemed a lot more interested in the emotional connection and vulnerability aspects than anything else. BEAUTIFUL woman and she lets you have a LOT of fun with her body, but it is very much a handjob situation where she makes sure she is always in control (protip: let her tie you up). It won't pop your cherry but I also think it is closer to what you "need" and I am pretty sure she would have no issue with me giving a reco given the circumstances. So if you can make it up to Denver/Boulder, PM me.

Shyguy09527, I think you are getting excellent advice. You should pay close attention to them. I am looking forward to reading your review of your first encounter. Your situation reminded me of an old Jack Nicholson movie, The Last Detail. Below is the link to the wikipedia page. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Last_Detail Here are links to the brothel scene videos from the movie where the virgin sailor like you is taken to a brothel by experienced old times (perhaps like Renfield and Spider). I think a lot of us had a similar first time experience. https://upskirt.tv/videos/carol-kane...e-last-detail/ https://upskirt.tv/videos/carol-kane...e-last-detail/ Good luck.