Massage as prelude to more?

Hi everyone!

I am totally new to this..so please bear with me! I am nervous about pursuing any kind of sexual encounter for fear running into undercover police. I am talking to several providers from Backspace who promise a sensual massage and hint at the possibility of more. Nothing in these ads explicitly mentions sex for money.

My question is this. Let's say I show up, undress and she begins to give me a full body massage. Is it pretty safe to assume after this point, that she is for real? I imagine no LE will actually go this far? At the same time, what would I need to do to show the provider that I am legit?

I have also been reading some of the provider reviews on eccie - I suppose that is also a good start

Sorry again, these may seem like naive questions..but this is a completely new experience to me.

If you get to the point of a FBSM, you should be pretty safe that shes not LE. Not guaranteed but reasonably safe. She will probably be much more worried that YOU aren't LE at that point.

If your goal is to get off with the least chance of encountering LE, why see a Backpage girl? Why not pick among the many girls who advertise and have good reviews here?

Excellent point SJ!

If your goal is to get off with the least chance of encountering LE, why see a Backpage girl? Why not pick among the many girls who advertise and have good reviews here? Originally Posted by ShysterJon

+1 just take the time to research and you efforts will pay off

Thanks everyone, I believe I will seek out the reviewed girls on here. It is just intimidating at first for some reason.

If your goal is to get off with the least chance of encountering LE, why see a Backpage girl? Why not pick among the many girls who advertise and have good reviews here? Originally Posted by ShysterJon

Excellent point SJ! Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

Agreed. For the sake of argument let's assume he wants more than a massage and his options are backpage or some other form of ad mall, why go to the "massage" section instead the "escort" (or similar) section?

Massage operators get busted all the time, too. At least with the more direct ads you have less chance of misunderstanding around what is on the menu or, particularly if you are in a new town, getting upsold like crazy to get what you want.

Rarely do they go after the massage client. It's almost always the providers they're after. Sometimes the clients get caught up in the collateral damage, but rarely are we the target.

That being said, I've gotta agree with the folks that have spoken here. There are quite a few fbsm providers right here in ECCIE. Just do your research and you should be fine.

One word of caution. This hobby is addictive. One fbsm, and you'll be hooked.