Sleeping With A Stranger

I've thoroughly enjoyed a few overnights with the lovely ATFs I've known over the years, but all were with ladies I was very close to. Have never thought of doing this with a stranger.

Am curious...for the ladies that have overnighters on their menu, is it common to do this with men you've never met in person?

Posted on this forum since doing things with a stranger can perhaps be a fantasy.....

I've only had overniters with regulars that I've gotten to know some so far. However I'm not 100% opposed to the nite with a stranger, just worried about the many variables that could complicate the evening.

I have had several overnight sessions with providers I was familiar with. I decided one time I was gonna be in Dallas that, after reading so much of Elizabeth Whispers had posted, I wanted to have an overnight session with her. We pm'd back and forth and set it up. We had never met in person, but I was definitely not disappointed. It was exciting, tantilizing and everything I could have hoped for. I wish you well. I would go for it. It's like exploring the unknown!

I think you should see a provider before you do an overnight. Same with travelling. If you don't have good chemistry it could be a long and expensive night. If the overnighter represent a large portion of your hobby budget, I would make sure she is the right one for the occasion.

I'm pretty sure my sleep machine would turn most of them off.

I'm pretty adventurous and I would definitely do it, but for something like an overnight I prefer to have had at least one date with the girl prior to the overnight. Overnights, for me, are fun and exciting. It's not just about sex. So it's important that there is chemistry and compatibility. I want our time together to be unforgettable.

I've had some awesome overnight dates with girls...almost fairy tale like that I'll never ever forget. If I had to spend that time with a person that wasn't really into the experience, then why do it.

I love overnights. The key is lots of pre-planning and communication.
Get to know each other and expectations even before you meet.

If you arrow it down from what you would like to what will happen, then you'll both be in the know...

Interesting enough, I've done my overnight only with strangers, and never have been disappointed...

Good luck!

btw, FYI as an after-thought, and not sure if this matters, but my overnights were all of the non-vanilla brand....

About half the overnights I do are with men who I haven't met before, and half with men who I've gotten to know over time. I like to have a little phone chat as part of my screening when someone is booking an overnight. I find it astonishingly easy to know how good my chemistry will be with someone just by hearing their voice, most of the time. I have enjoyed all of my overnights.

A bucket list item? Perhaps. Having sex in the dark with someone I've not met or seen, and only know by reputation and reviews..... and then waking up with that person .... sort of interesting.

A while back, a provider drifted off to sleep during a session with me (I guess I must have been extra exciting, ha ha). Not an overnight, but the subject was "sleeping with a stranger." My first thought was that she must trust me to a pretty good extent, to allow herself to sleep with me there. My second thought was, since she's a pretty smart woman, if she thinks I'm trustworthy, well, I guess maybe I am. Cool feeling -- it was nice!

I've not had an overnight with a provider mostly due to budget but it is a very exciting fantasy!

Last time I did this Was many (many) years back ... I was a bartender at a dance club and a sexy red head sat at the bar ... Many men offer to buy her drinks (club soda only she insists) and danced with her... It was a busy weekend night so did not get to talk to her much but flirted through the night...end of the night comes she asks if she can wait for me...I say sure but it will be an hour or so... I'm thinking no way she waits...I'm wrong she it waiting for me...asks me to follow her home....I do ...invites me into her house.....we never make it out of the living room ..... Hot make session and crazy intense sex and fun most of the night ... Wake up on the living room floor as day breaks and she tells me she really had fun but I need to go before her husband got home! I hit the road... We never exchangeD names numbers or anything...totally hot time!!


[Footnote: she showed up again a month or so later and we ended up knowing each other for a few years and had many rendezvous over that time that were semi-public / public....and actually did give our names after the second time ]

Just got back from Christmas with my atf. Nothing like waking up with a lovely lady in your arms.

I'm not going to sleep next to someone I don't know. I wanna fucking wake up. lol

I fell a sleep after dinner on my first over night with a certain provider .Call it a short nap i woke up she was giggling and watching a movie .

The first thing i said is i must of farted if your giggling sorry.

She said Its ok dont worry . It was just a little one i,am still here am i not ? It happens .

She named it the fart test .

On a side note she does carry little ear plugs with her for bad snoorers

My first real overnight was when I went to Tampa to de-stress for my 40th Birthday and I found a provider who would do an overnight with a stranger. We talked and emailed back and forth and when she showed up at my hotel room it was like coming home to a long lost lover........the sex was great, showered together, dinner, talking, more sex, sleeping, more sex and a wake up BJ........a birthday I will never forget.

All the rest of my over-nighters have been withproviders who have arrived after midnight for a 90+ minute date and we fuck so much, they are too exhausted to leave.

One time this ATF, who I still see once in a while was a bit drunk when she arrived and thenwe had more, the sex was hot, I gave her a present, her very first vib, and she loved it......after 3hrs of sex and toys, we both passed out.......with the vib on her clit running......I woke up, took the vib out of her hand and covered us both up and went to sleep.

she woke up not knowing where she was......till I rolled over and slipped insider her again.....God she was good!!