Ever had something bad come out in scene?

I got a call from a good friend last night (this early am). While in a training session, he and his sub tapped into real life issues that his sub thought had been dealt with.

I have known this guy for 5+ years and he is pretty thorough on vetting his trainables. I've known a few people in the RL scene who were in it due to issues and observed a catharsis scene, but I have never been in a scene where literally the molehill became a mountain.

Once I get the parameters, I do dig around in a psyche looking for these minefields. I've not come across any in p4p. Yet. I have in RL, but nothing huge.

Does this make sense? I have had no sleep so it probably doesn't.

Great topic!!!


I think I understand.... I was about to start a session with a potential playtoy. After hooking up one restraint on her wrist, she freaked out.... I did not continue, of course, but sat down to discuss. Found out some RL Early Childhood things that even though we had discussed here interests and I poked around to make sure she was ok with that was going to happen, something triggered a memory....

We discerned that this kind of play was not for her, at least at the time and parted ways.

Sometines you really don't know what is going to trigger a suppressed memory, an unknown terror or a subconscious landmine....

I hope that they were able to resolve and move along... Or that they deal with it in the manner required.

PPE

Be careful with rape fantasies..... make sure she really wants to act it out and talk it out.