I am all for ladies who want to be careful in their screening and have had some unusual 'rules' set on getting to an encounter ('walk straight through lobby, do not look to side, do not speak with anyone'), but, this was too much for me to understand.
I'm setting up a business trip and contacted a lady I have seen twice before and who has vouched for me on P411. The first meet was an outcall to my hotel and to be screened I had to divulge personal information which she phone checked ahead of time.
A year later, I arranged an incall and had an easier time as I was able to direct her to her P411 vouch of me from the year before. To go to the incall, I had to park in a particular area of her apartment complex, walk up a specific path with a clipboard and briefcase clearly visible, and not speak until inside her incall. OK, I can get with the program about wanting to look like having a legitimate reason to be visiting.
This year, all communication is by e-mail through her newly hired assistant. Not having my car on this trip, I asked about how best to get to her place (taxi or mass transit). Mass transit was not viable, and, she does not allow taxis to drop off clients. I asked if I could have the taxi drop me at a public place a mile away and I would walk. No dice, no taxis.
So I said, 'my loss', and I chalked it up to eccentricity or over-protectiveness. I did wonder what would prevent someone from lying and taking a taxi anyway as the parking area is not visible from her place. But, if these are her rules, so be it
Anyway, she's a great lady with a thriving business (I assume from being able to hire an assistant). I just thought this was too much cloak and dagger arbitrary condition to be able to see her, especially as I was a repeat customer.