Okay ladies and gentalmen,
I just saw the movie Bridesmaids and was fascinated with the intro scene. Jon Hamm and Kristen Wiig are totally going at it in multiple positions. You know the scene. It's pretty funny, but a bummer in a way. She asks him to slow down, he does, she starts to get into it, but only for a few seconds because he speeds up again. She's not enjoying. Here's a link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKao7DHxUQE
I prefer slow mostly with a crescendo to a medium hard tempo.
How important is the right humping tempo for you? Is everyone way different? Vote or say something about now.