Blatant discrimination and outright cruelty to a POST-op TS provider, in Austin TX of all places?

Ok, I am a post operative TS female meaning I am now legally 100% female (F on my legal ID and birth cert now and all). Well before I had joined here I came across a thread here asking about me (had an ad on BP) so I decide to join so I can answer some questions being asked about me which goes fairly smoothly. So then a cpl members message me suggesting I should post a welcome thread so I did and then the problems start. I have since been under fire with constant insults, name calling and members being downright CRUEL to me for no reason other than they dont agree with me being here, I cant even post without being called things like "half man, half lab experiment" "dude with his dick chopped off" with no real staff intervention taking place, at times they even seem to encourage it. I dont even have to legally disclose but am doing so for respect of others feelings on the matter and this is all ive got. I didnt expect everyone to accept me, its their right not too,but the ttreatment I have received is WELL over the boundries of the forum guidelines and what ANY new member should have to endure. One member even started a thread titled "ROCKIN BRANDY im a girl trapped in a mans body help!" With no intention other than to be cruel and bash me avout my sensitive MEDICAL condition and despite numorous complaints the staff lets it roll on. I am not being allowed access to the ladies only area as well. This has been totally uncalled for. Anyone think this type of discrimination and cruelty is wrong here? Or is it just me? Ill attach the threads in question.

Lets start with the shortest, where I inquire about powder room access
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...post1054684290


Heres the thread that brought me here
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=910492

And heres my warm welcome thread
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=914946

Lastly heres the wonderful bash thread a user started for me.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=916389

Dear Brandy,

I haven't read all the posts you are referring to, but I know how it can bee around here on the board. Honey, I mean this in the nicest way, but the world is not at all a fair place. How can you expect fair treatment on a SHMB (silly hooker message board)?

Lotsa guys are homophobes. Many just aren't interested in anything or anyone that pushes boundaries within themselves.

Ignore those who do not like what you project and what you have to offer. They have nothing to offer you, and don't let anyone hurt your feelings about who and what you want to be, as a person. Your own self is a sacred space.

Just respect yourself and don't worry about nay-sayers. Have fun. Keep your head up, and carry on. (just always bee super-careful in screening, if at all possible).

I saw that you had at least one nice review from one "nice" hobby fella. See, you are on the right path. You know--you can't make people learn or accept: you or reality.

Just bee yourself and move on.
love,
Crystal

ps..if you don't do threADS in the co-ed lounge, I think most of the negativity will go away. It is allowed on occasion, but keep to a minimum, or that just starts the "grumbling"

I can take their opinions, but they should not be able to get away with crossing the guidelines just because I am a TS, thats my whole thing. They dont have to accept me, but they shouldnt be able to get away with saying the things they have.

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Dear Brandy,

I haven't read all the posts you are referring to, but I know how it can bee around here on the board. Honey, I mean this in the nicest way, but the world is not at all a fair place. How can you expect fair treatment on a SHMB (silly hooker message board)?

Lotsa guys are homophobes. Many just aren't interested in anything or anyone that pushes boundaries within themselves.

Ignore those who do not like what you project and what you have to offer. They have nothing to offer you, and don't let anyone hurt your feelings about who and what you want to be, as a person. Your own self is a sacred space.

Just respect yourself and don't worry about nay-sayers. Have fun. Keep your head up, and carry on. (just always bee super-careful in screening, if at all possible).

I saw that you had at least one nice review from one "nice" hobby fella. See, you are on the right path. You know--you can't make people learn or accept: you or reality.

Just bee yourself and move on.
love,
Crystal

ps..if you don't do threADS in the co-ed lounge, I think most of the negativity will go away. It is allowed on occasion, but keep to a minimum, or that just starts the "grumbling" Originally Posted by crystalkitty

Your going to get "all" the attention your looking for RB. That's obviously what you crave. I thought I'd get in here before the shit storm starts!

First off, the thread started for you by ME, was because I was directed to do so by a MOD in lieu of continuing the ongoing discussion in the welcome thread you posted.

Let's not forget the rebuttal threADs you started as well:

Your rebuttal thread eloquently labeled:

STILL LOOKING "Im old, overweight, have no male goods to speak of so I make myself feel better picking on others thread"

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=919721

ThreAds, what the owners say...
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=922966

Powder Room
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=922782&highlight=

Doggie Poo: Funny story
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=923631&highlight=

Protein load needed, Anyone wanna shoot down the back of my throat this afternoon?
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=921839&highlight=

Second... yes you are a man who cut off his dick by your own admission and have labeled yourself as a post op TS. TS pre or post are NOT everyone's cup of tea so down goes your market share.

You are young and immature and are pissed off at the world because people just won't except you. Your going to need to get use to that. Again less market share.

Then you get into pissing matches with everyone who disagrees with you. More drama and again even less market share.

You have contradicted yourself many times in your posts You have made sure everyone understands how upset you are. You try to rally support and make it all about poor RB. He is being discriminated against. Less market share again.

You have had a great opportunity to share your feelings and voice your opinions instead you want to beat everyone over the head who doesn't agree with you.

You're like a bowl of granola RB. Whether your a fruit, a nut or a flake it really doesn't matter. Your just emotionally unstable and in a self-destructive path to virtually zero business. You need to go back to what works for you. What ever that might be.

There is plenty of room for us all here. I wish you the best of luck once again. I'm sure there will be others with words of wisdom to follow.

Dear Brandy,

I haven't read all the posts you are referring to, but I know how it can bee around here on the board. Honey, I mean this in the nicest way, but the world is not at all a fair place. How can you expect fair treatment on a SHMB (silly hooker message board)?

Lotsa guys are homophobes. Many just aren't interested in anything or anyone that pushes boundaries within themselves.

Ignore those who do not like what you project and what you have to offer. They have nothing to offer you, and don't let anyone hurt your feelings about who and what you want to be, as a person. Your own self is a sacred space.

Just respect yourself and don't worry about nay-sayers. Have fun. Keep your head up, and carry on. (just always bee super-careful in screening, if at all possible).

I saw that you had at least one nice review from one "nice" hobby fella. See, you are on the right path. You know--you can't make people learn or accept: you or reality.

Just bee yourself and move on.
love,
Crystal

ps..if you don't do threADS in the co-ed lounge, I think most of the negativity will go away. It is allowed on occasion, but keep to a minimum, or that just starts the "grumbling" Originally Posted by crystalkitty

Excellent Advise!

Its not about acceptance, its about having your opinion WITHOUT being insulting. I only started a thread about you after you beat me up with all the insults and disrespect you could muster towards me and no staff assistance. Any thread I post its man this man that. You dont have to agree with or acceppt me, but you dont have to talk to me the way you have, your entitled to not accept me, but the rude bashing is un called for!

Your going to get "all" the attention your looking for RB. That's obviously what you crave. I thought I'd get in here before the shit storm starts!

First off, the thread started for you by ME, was because I was directed to do so by a MOD in lieu of continuing the ongoing discussion in the welcome thread you posted.

Let's not forget the rebuttal threADs you started as well:

Your rebuttal thread eloquently labeled:

STILL LOOKING "Im old, overweight, have no male goods to speak of so I make myself feel better picking on others thread"

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=919721

ThreAds, what the owners say...
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=922966

Powder Room
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=922782&highlight=

Doggie Poo: Funny story
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=923631&highlight=

Protein load needed, Anyone wanna shoot down the back of my throat this afternoon?
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=921839&highlight=

Second... yes you are a man who cut off his dick by your own admission and have labeled yourself as a post op TS. TS pre or post are NOT everyone's cup of tea so down goes your market share.

You are young and immature and are pissed off at the world because people just won't except you. Your going to need to get use to that. Again less market share.

Then you get into pissing matches with everyone who disagrees with you. More drama and again even less market share.

You have contradicted yourself many times in your posts You have made sure everyone understands how upset you are. You try to rally support and make it all about poor RB. He is being discriminated against. Less market share again.

You have had a great opportunity to share your feelings and voice your opinions instead you want to beat everyone over the head who doesn't agree with you.

You're like a bowl of granola RB. Whether your a fruit, a nut or a flake it really doesn't matter. Your just emotionally unstable and in a self-destructive path to virtually zero business. You need to go back to what works for you. What ever that might be.

There is plenty of room for us all here. I wish you the best of luck once again. I'm sure there will be others with words of wisdom to follow. Originally Posted by Still Looking

Its not about acceptance, its about having your opinion WITHOUT being insulting. I only started a thread about you after you beat me up with all the insults and disrespect you could muster towards me and no staff assistance. Any thread I post its man this man that. You dont have to agree with or acceppt me, but you dont have to talk to me the way you have, your entitled to not accept me, but the rude bashing is un called for! Originally Posted by RocKin BraNdy

Several people including myself have given you constructive criticism that you simply ignore. I mean no disrespect when I state that "I" feel you are man who now wants to be woman. Or claims you are now a woman based on changes you have made ie. surgury. And you are excepted but as I have stated before your just not going to be everyone's cup of tea. Same goes for me. Some people think I'm funny others do not. Life goes on. In the thread you started about me... how many times did I post in that thread? Didn't you pick up on that? I was sending a message that obviously went unnoticed by you. Your not going to win people over by getting pissed at them. Do you really want to meet or see people not interested in seeing you? Silly don't you think? So why keep making your self look foolish and cause others to stay away? This is a business. Wake up and smell the coffee. Be safe have fun and do the best you can. And getting is pissing matches with mods and questioning the owners rules / guidelines won't get you the results your look for either! One more thing... do two wrongs make a right?

Thats the first time youve spoke to me with any kind of decency whatsoever. You can believe anything you want to, but some of the remarks and comments I have received in my short time here (from several people) are just deplorable, I cant even post a thread and run my business to attract those interested without it getting twisted into a bash fest. Several of you are trying to ruin my chance of doing that and getting any business and would be whether I was making a fuss or not! Just because you dont want me here, thats the REAL agenda, spreading warnings about me when ive done no one here wrong. You are telling me to stop and go about my business while yall are just trying to ruin it for me regardless. Its discrimination and hate plain and simple. All the things yall keep telling me to do is exactly what I was trying to do when I came here and ive been needlessly attacked since!

Several people including myself have given you constructive criticism that you simply ignore. I mean no disrespect when I state that "I" feel you are man who now wants to be woman. Or claims you are now a woman based on changes you have made ie. surgury. And you are excepted but as I have stated before your just not going to be everyone's cup of tea. Same goes for me. Some people think I'm funny others do not. Life goes on. In the thread you started about me... how many times did I post in that thread? Didn't you pick up on that? I was sending a message that obviously went unnoticed by you. Your not going to win people over by getting pissed at them. Do you really want to meet or see people not interested in seeing you? Silly don't you think? So why keep making your self look foolish and cause others to stay away? This is a business. Wake up and smell the coffee. Be safe have fun and do the best you can. And getting is pissing matches with mods and questioning the owners rules / guidelines won't get you the results your look for either! One more thing... do two wrongs make a right? Originally Posted by Still Looking

RB and SL,

I think I've always treated both of you with respect. Do you both think I seem to be a reasonable and fairly intelligent person?

Please answer at your earliest convenience.

Regards,
LMx

You go girl!!!! I adore that you have had the courage to be true to yourself and make your dreams come true. So many dont, cant or wont....butt love to bash others that made it happen. You ROCK!! Whom among us here on a HOOKER board has the right to judge another? ummmm? Merry Christmas pervs~~

You go girl!!!! I adore that you have had the courage to be true to yourself and make your dreams come true. So many dont, cant or wont....butt love to bash others that made it happen. You ROCK!! Whom among us here on a HOOKER board has the right to judge another? ummmm? Merry Christmas pervs~~ Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

Lol...exactly, I just made a similar comment on another forum...of all places to be judgmental...seriously.

The mods will handle any rude bashing. Just accept who you are and move on down the road.

Its not about acceptance, its about having your opinion WITHOUT being insulting. I only started a thread about you after you beat me up with all the insults and disrespect you could muster towards me and no staff assistance. Any thread I post its man this man that. You dont have to agree with or acceppt me, but you dont have to talk to me the way you have, your entitled to not accept me, but the rude bashing is un called for! Originally Posted by RocKin BraNdy

If you want to be treated like every other woman here, then why come in here saying you are a post-OP transexual? You are pretty and probably really sexy. Nobody would have questioned you a bit.

Now you've broken the seal and seem to think that the jerks who bash other providers for a little extra tummy or for not being the sharpest tool in the box should leave you alone? What did you think was going to happen?

Let me explain...I think you are still a man because i know you are a man genetically. No amount of surgery is going to change that. My ATF's implants didn't magically give her natural big boobs, but in fact UNNATURAL big boobs...and i love them and most importantly, she loves them.

Some guys don't think women should get unnatural big boobs and some are disgusted by them. That is their right to think what they want. Similarly, It is okay that some people think you are a man who unnaturally appears to be a woman. You can't tell them what to think.

With that said, I don't think the guys who like natural boobs should be hurtful and rude to the girls with big fakers...but they are. I don't they should be rude and hurtful to you either...but they will be. Quite predictably, they will be.

I hope things get better for you on here.

If you want to be treated like every other woman here, then why come in here saying you are a post-OP transexual? You are pretty and probably really sexy. Nobody would have questioned you a bit.

Now you've broken the seal and seem to think that the jerks who bash other providers for a little extra tummy or for not being the sharpest tool in the box should leave you alone? What did you think was going to happen?

Let me explain...I think you are still a man because i know you are a man genetically. No amount of surgery is going to change that. My ATF's implants didn't magically give her natural big boobs, but in fact UNNATURAL big boobs...and i love them!

Some guys don't think women should get unnatural big boobs and some are disgusted by them. That is their right to think what they want. Similarly, It is okay that some people think you are a man who unnaturally appears to be a woman. You can't tell them what to think.

With that said, I don't think the guys who like natural boobs should be hurtful and rude to the girls with big fakers...but they are. I don't they should be rude and hurtful to you either...but they will be. Quite predictably, they will be. Originally Posted by kingforaday

I think Brandy did the right thing by telling people.