Face to face screening

  • 8254F
  • 09-02-2016, 05:25 PM
Don't know if I titled it correctly but is there such a thing as meeting in person for a provider to screen a client?
^^^^^ my first meeting with an eccie provider was face to face over dinner. I had zero references and no 411...nothing.

She was obviously more nervous than I was because I knew she was good to go.

That night and long term....It worked out well for the both of us.
  • 8254F
  • 09-02-2016, 06:33 PM
^^^^^ my first meeting with an eccie provider was face to face over dinner. I had zero references and no 411...nothing.

She was obviously more nervous than I was because I knew she was good to go.

That night and long term....It worked out well for the both of us. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter
How does that work in regards to her fee? Paying full fee seems excessive just for a meet and greet.
  • pxmcc
  • 09-02-2016, 06:42 PM
How does that work in regards to her fee? Paying full fee seems excessive just for a meet and greet. Originally Posted by 8254F
The meet-n-greet should be free or close to it, since you are both receiving some benefit-dual screening. Allocate time n donation for the session right after if the meet-n-greet goes well.
  • 8254F
  • 09-02-2016, 06:50 PM
The meet-n-greet should be free or close to it, since you are both receiving some benefit-dual screening. Allocate time n donation for the session right after if the meet-n-greet goes well. Originally Posted by pxmcc
That sounds reasonable.
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Why you acting ig'nant? You know the drill "newb"
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Either pay the rate or go back to downloading porn.
If- and only IF I find the pursuit worthwhile and promising -given limited employment screening information, I MAY choose to add a meet and greet to my screening. If so, I charge a $50 fee for my time, gas, and convenience (which will go toward a session if scheduled within one week of the meet and greet). For my safety, I NEVER EVER set up a possible/tentative date to follow the meeting. It is understood up front that no matter my decision, we will part ways, and I will contact the gent within the next few hours to let them know my decision. When doing a meet and greet I feel strongly that having a pending session will cloud a lady's judgement towards making money or being too lenient in her expectations. A good businesswoman should always be prepared mentally and financially to walk away from a meet and greet.
I have bought many lunches to see if we want to get together, sometimes yes and sometimes it was just a business lunch. It all goes on the expense statement.
  • 8254F
  • 09-02-2016, 07:52 PM
At YummyMarie...I think that's fair, both fee and expectations. I fully understand the need for screening. Observing some of personalities on here there's no way in hell I would engage in a one-way exchange of information to certain ladies. Meet and greet seems like a good way to see if there's a positive vibe.
  • 8254F
  • 09-02-2016, 08:12 PM
I have bought many lunches to see if we want to get together, sometimes yes and sometimes it was just a business lunch. It all goes on the expense statement. Originally Posted by Mrgalveston
Nice to hear that providers are open to that.
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At YummyMarie...I think that's fair, both fee and expectations. I fully understand the need for screening. Observing some of personalities on here there's no way in hell I would engage in a one-way exchange of information to certain ladies. Meet and greet seems like a good way to see if there's a positive vibe. Originally Posted by 8254F
What ever the hell you do, don't show them any personal info or let them see your car and plates. If they get your plates, you will quickly wind up in a database and they will have all your real life info.

My advise would be to go through a strategy of getting p411 where you never give a hooker or p411 your real info.
  • 8254F
  • 09-02-2016, 08:16 PM
What ever the hell you do, don't show them any personal info or let them see your car and plates. If they get your plates, you will quickly wind up in a database and they will have all your real life info. Originally Posted by citizen44
Excellent point!
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At YummyMarie...I think that's fair, both fee and expectations. I fully understand the need for screening. Observing some of personalities on here there's no way in hell I would engage in a one-way exchange of information to certain ladies. Meet and greet seems like a good way to see if there's a positive vibe. Originally Posted by 8254F
Seems like an unnecessary step in creating a positive vibe. Besides checking out physical appearances what kind of information exchange do you expect at a meet and greet. Lies communicated via a phone or text can be also be told face to face. It's not like your going to talk money for sex while F2F so I'm trying to understand what kind of screening while you eat (presuming it's a lunch or dinner) is actually being done.

I don't know just asking the question.
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Seems like an unnecessary step in creating a positive vibe. Besides checking out physical appearances what kind of information exchange do you expect at a meet and greet. Lies communicated via a phone or text can be also be told face to face. It's not like your going to talk money for sex while F2F so I'm trying to understand what kind of screening while you eat (presuming it's a lunch or dinner) is actually being done.

I don't know just asking the question. Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel
The screening comes when she fakes having to go to the restroom before leaving and she then watches you walk out to your car. Quick snap photo of the plates and then a little internet searching and voila, she's got your info.