Waste of my time or not?

I haven't been in the game for long, unilke some who have been here for years. I'm still a newbie and I've yet to do anything, only strolling and reading other people's experiences. I haven't seen a provider because of a fear that I have. What is it? I'm a young buck. So my point is, would that be a deterrent for you, the providers?

I don't understand why young guys are so reluctant to play in the hobby. Don't you want to get laid rather than jacking off? If you don't have a gf that will give you sex on a regular basis, you have three choices: jack off, try to get invited in a swing meet, or go to a prostitute. Jacking off is the easiest, the next best thing is seeing a working girl, and the least easy is hooking up with swingers. What's great about the hobby is that once you do it it becomes easier to do, something of which cannot be said about having gfs, going to swing meets, and trying to get hook-ups at the local bar.

I haven't seen a provider because of a fear that I have. What is it? I'm a young buck. So my point is, would that be a deterrent for you, the providers? Originally Posted by dirtysanchezz

I was wondering if you would clarify what your fear is? That you are too young?

What does being a youngster have to do with anythin. Get some coin together and possibly be willing to share a free Uber code lmao and get your play on hell you'll find its WAY cheaper than having a regular gf without most of the hassle. Just find a good source for your favorite condom and get to it

Yeah, after reading, I didn't explain myself correctly. My fear is getting rejected because of my age.

I don't understand why young guys are so reluctant to play in the hobby. Don't you want to get laid rather than jacking off? If you don't have a gf that will give you sex on a regular basis, you have three choices: jack off, try to get invited in a swing meet, or go to a prostitute. Jacking off is the easiest, the next best thing is seeing a working girl, and the least easy is hooking up with swingers. What's great about the hobby is that once you do it it becomes easier to do, something of which cannot be said about having gfs, going to swing meets, and trying to get hook-ups at the local bar. Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

Yeah, after reading, I didn't explain myself correctly. My fear is getting rejected because of my age.

Money has no age limit.

Yeah, after reading, I didn't explain myself correctly. My fear is getting rejected because of my age. Originally Posted by dirtysanchezz

either your going to do it or not.

This hobby isn't for everyone, perhaps it's just not for you and there's nothing wrong with that at all.

If you have to ask...

All you can do is try. The provider is either going to say yes or no. There's no in between.

Look in the Requests and ISO section. There's a sticky up top that lists newbie friendly providers. Scroll through the list and find a few that interest you. Reach out to them thru PM and tell them your age. With all the newbie friendly providers here you'll find someone who will see you

Most ladies are open to any age of guy (me included). Just be respectful, have the proper screening info and operate with the proper etiquette, and you will be fine. You could always mention it to the lady before the session, during screening, etc.

Good luck.

....I haven't seen a provider because of a fear that I have. What is it? I'm a young buck.... Originally Posted by dirtysanchezz

All you need to do is....

The pursuit of pleasure is never a waste of time!

Lots of good advice here. Do your research and be polite when you contact lusty ladies. I don't think you'll have a problem unless you're under 21 or LOOK like you are. In that case, you might have to prove that you're above the legal consenting age of 18. (The lassies have to do the same to get Verified Provider status on ECCIE, by the way.)

The latest edition of the aforementioned Houston Newbie-Friendly Provider List: http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=347

Practical Primer for Naughty Newbies: http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=346

Be aware, however, that seeing a "professional" lady may just spoil you for regular girlfriends your age. Then again, heck, they may thank you later for what you'll learn now!

Irish luck in lust!

Money has no age limit. Originally Posted by cusco1

As long as you're legal.

either your going to do it or not.

Write your review...

This hobby isn't for everyone, perhaps it's just not for you and there's nothing wrong with that at all. Originally Posted by cr76

The hobby is for everyone...

The pursuit of pleasure is never a waste of time!

Lots of good advice here. Do your research and be polite when you contact lusty ladies. I don't think you'll have a problem unless you're under 21 or LOOK like you are. In that case, you might have to prove that you're above the legal consenting age of 18. (The lassies have to do the same to get Verified Provider status on ECCIE, by the way.)

The latest edition of the aforementioned Houston Newbie-Friendly Provider List: http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=347

Practical Primer for Naughty Newbies: http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=346

Be aware, however, that seeing a "professional" lady may just spoil you for regular girlfriends your age. Then again, heck, they may thank you later for what you'll learn now!

Irish luck in lust!
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

As always, Fancy has great advise!!