So I get a pm from a young man, 21, about a month ago who is new to the hobby and still a virgin. He wants to have his first sexual experience with a provider. Since he is so young I do everything I can to dissuade him from this. Sorry ladies men that young aren't emotionally equipped for this, but he won't relent and I decide well since he won't do the right thing I will help him do it right and safely. So I walk him through how to stay safe and how to do the research. He takes all my advice and finds a nice provider we researched. Well he does the deed and has an awesome first experience. He calls me bouncing off the wall with joy. He gives me all the details and is just ecstatic. He keeps thanking me for mentoring him. I'm feeling kind of cool too for helping him. ::
unches self in shoulder::: Then that little voice of Yoda chimes in my head. Did I just help fuck this kid up? It was said in yoda speak in my head. Lol