OK, so not quite sure if this is the correct place to post this but here goes. I was wondering what providers as well as hobbyist think about asking when were they last tested. I did have a slight scare several weeks ago and was checked and happily I can say everything was negative. We all know the risks involved even if it is just a BBBJ as all providers as well as hobbyists want to feel safe and play safe. I am by no means saying that we as hobbyists or even providers for that matter are not having safe sex.
I just think that it is an important question and that neither party can ever say well "I'm safe" w/o actually knowing or having been tested recently. So, I guess my question is without trying to ruin the moment between provider and hobbyist how would you go about asking w/o feeling like you are accusing the provider of having any type of STD. Also, how would you as hobbyist feel if when you asked her, she asked you the same question back? This is not about making accusations to anyone, what it is about is safe sex practices and making the hobby a safe 1 for all who choose to be a part of it whether it be client or provider.