Post Orgasm - what many women don't do or men won't reveal

Please forgive me on the title. I just have had a difficult time expressing my thoughts on this because I'm shy sometimes about sex and too chicken shit to ask for what I want in advance from a women. It is painful to admit that, but it's true. I also feel like maybe I am giving away a secret men would never reveal, or maybe I am just the only man who wants this. So anyway, I am just going to blurt it out right now.



When getting a blow job or hand job there is that moment when I ejaculate, awesome right? But that's not the end. It aint over. when you see or feel the head of my penis engorge into a giant mushroom cap and seaman shot or dribble out, don't stop, or stare, or slow up. Many women, dare I say almost all women stop. Please please please don't stop. I am at your mercy at that very intense pivotal moment. That is when you could make me go out of my f***ing mind with pleasure! Go go go like you never had gone before and keep going harder than ever! Give it all you got! Make me spasm like I was shot with a tazer gun! Don't let up no matter how much I try to squirm away stay on me faster harder! make me F***ing stutter and scream damn it! Please don't squander your change, because I can't ask you to do that and look you in the eye. I am barely able to write it here. I will buy you diamonds and worship you until the day I die.

30 years ago a woman did this for me without any advanced notice one time. No blow job has come close since, I regret to say. I also regret not specifically asking her to do that again while we were only together for a couple months.


I don't know were I am going with this, I just had to get if off my chest. I do feel a little better I think. Please don't hate on me if you read this and think I am pathetic. Thanks.

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Thanks for sharing ... ?

You are right awben, many women will stop to early. When you find that one you have to push away or pull off, you got a keeper. There are some ladies that know this and how it drives you crazzzzy.

A lot of guys want you to stop immediately after because it becomes too sensitive after orgasm. I run across that a lot. Everyone is different. So the best thing for you to do is let your friends know that beforehand. Some guys will literally jump off the bed if you keep going after they cum. They just can't take it.

Closed mouths don't get fed. And that is definitely nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. It's your preference and what makes you feel good and leads to a successful session.

A lot of guys want you to stop immediately after because it becomes too sensitive after orgasm. I run across that a lot. Everyone is different. So the best thing for you to do is let your friends know that beforehand. Some guys will literally jump off the bed if you keep going after they cum. They just can't take it.

Closed mouths don't get fed. And that is definitely nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. It's your preference and what makes you feel good and leads to a successful session. Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

communication is key! If you'd like a certain something done, discuss it beforehand.

A lot of guys want you to stop immediately after because it becomes too sensitive after orgasm. I run across that a lot. Everyone is different. So the best thing for you to do is let your friends know that beforehand. Some guys will literally jump off the bed if you keep going after they cum. They just can't take it.

Closed mouths don't get fed. And that is definitely nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. It's your preference and what makes you feel good and leads to a successful session. Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

Yeah, there's a fine line for me. If you don't slow down and get very sensual after I've come, I'm going to put a stop to it. There's even room for some legit teasing to take advantage of that sensitivity and make me flinch, but, seriously, I can only take so much.

I thought most guys were like this and couldn't take much after they come?

Interesting that some guys like it. Some guys also like pegging and being tied up and whipped. Is this an unusual request?

A lot of guys want you to stop immediately after because it becomes too sensitive after orgasm. I run across that a lot Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

My thoughts as well.

Some guys also like pegging and being tied up and whipped. Is this an unusual request? Originally Posted by Crock

Lol. Not for some...but for me yes. I don't poke, prod, peg, massage, lick, tongue... ANYONES asshole.

communication is key! If you'd like a certain something done, discuss it beforehand. Originally Posted by corona

In all interactions, communication is key.

Never happen, silly boy. She's not there to make you happy. She's there to get you off and get you out in time for the next guy.

You think the client ought to be about three feet above where she knows the real client to be.

Remember, that some communication doesn't have to be verbal or specific, if that is tough for you. Anything from a "Don't stop" or a light touch on her head, etc, may work for clues with someone that is focused, if conversation is difficult.

My preference is for them to get very quiet so they don’t interrupt my nap.

TinMan wins the thread, as usual.


What's my first thought after an orgasm? "Close the browser!"

This is simple. If a provider makes me lurch, I'm not dying. I'm just feeling sensitive. Just keeping trying, make me say, no more please! That's a job well done and a tip to follow! Never happened to me though! The stopping part I mean. The tip will always goes up for good work!