Fantasies fulfilled?

OK, been reading this board for a few months now and there are lots of fantasies out there. I see lots of dom and sub, which I understand means different things to individuals; I see golden showers, bondage, foot worship, etc.

I am curious, both from the gents and the ladies, if these fantasies get fulfilled during sessions? If so, are you gents generally pretty happy with what you got?

I'm also curious about some of the more extreme fantasies I've read about, or seen ads for: forced bi; cuckold; public humiliation, gang bangs, just to name a few. If anyone has partaken, from either side of the fence in these, do they really happen or is it just a "mind fvck"?

Finally, for those gents who have some of the more extreme fantasies, how do you approach a lady? Bluntly? Slowly?

PMs welcomed.

Let's face it, some have the ability to pull off the fantasy. It takes a particular talent to get into someone's head, (above shoulders) and carry it out. Then there's always the experience factor. An example for me is recently visiting someone, not on this site for goldens and getting a huge disappointment for lack of experience and lack of listening to recommendations or preparation.

i've not experienced nearly as many fantasies that my mind can conjure up.

Thank you for sharing. I have seen one lady and we did a fantasy thing. We spent some time PMing prior, and she also spent some time talking in person before we began. She was quite good. I think we took it slowly because we didn't know each other. She could have pushed my boundaries, but I am also glad she didn't. It showed respect. My problem is she lives in a city which I have a difficult time getting to. Otherwise, I suspect we'd be on visit number 6 by now. LOL. Once my work settles down a bit, I am hopeful to see her again.

If you don't mind, I'd like to ask you a question. If its none of my beeswax, just say so. Is the golden shower offered to you as a way for you to earn an orgasm, or to prove that she "owns" you and that you would do anything for her? I ask, because that's sort of how I would see that working for me.

Thanks again.

i don't personally view it as a reward. Being a toilet for a Woman is just more of an honor for me. But, for a Woman who uses me in that way, especially if She enjoys it, She could own me.

i've often said that i'd luv to be married to a Woman who would make me Her personal.

Aww the world of fantasy possibly meeting the world of reality?
It really depends upon the individuals and depth of the fantasy. I had the pleasure of meeting a fellow before I was actually involved in this little hobby of ours, for a bit of prodomme play. We did talk extensively prior to meeting and I had a fair grasp of what he needed, but even so I knew within 10 minutes that I was not going to be able to meet the fantasy at the level he expected/desired. I realized it was nothing personal I just was not able to "work it" the way he needed it. I was disappointed in myself as I am primarily geared to giving pleasure to my partner (even tho they maybe in sub/maso role to me) (yes that means I will hurt you if you beg properly ewg )
And sometimes even w/the best intentions/planning/communications things still don't work the way you wanted them but you find yourself in a brand new unexpected world of joy and happiness hehe.

Very true, Lisa. Fantasies are such fragile things. A fantasy is one person's imagining. Two people are never going to be able to totally recreate it.