...whom does what to whom?

Males and females are different, oh yeah!

But in what ways? Share what you think in the poll and "aloud" if you wish...

Users and losers
Takers and givers
Sharer and taker

Are relationship equal? Or does one gender tend to take advantage of the other? What do you think?

If you believe the majority of TV ads, it seems to me that men are protrayed as dorks and women as having all the brains.
But that is far from the truth. I know an equal number of men and women that are dorks and smart. Gender has nothing to do with it.
However, I do see that most of men I know personally who have been married for more than five years are ruled by their wives. Not all, but most of them.
But I guess, overall, it is probably even between the genders when it comes to "users and losers", "takers and givers" and "sharer and taker".
Just my $0.02

In my own personal realationship, I'm both a dork and a brain...lol The power shifts between us. I say it's even.

When I saw the title of this thread, it brought to mind this old limerick:

There once was a gay from Khartoum
Who invited a dyke to his room.
They argued all night
About who had the right
To do what and with which and to whom.

When I saw the title of this thread, it brought to mind this old limerick:

There once was a gay from Khartoum
Who invited a dyke to his room.
They argued all night
About who had the right
To do what and with which and to whom. Originally Posted by meryt

Hummm, suggesting the dominate partner, not the male of female?

I am a male 54 81.82%
I am a female 9 13.64%

Slightly biased sample here!

men take advantage 8 12.12%
men a little more 6 9.09%
14/84
women take advantage 18 27.27%
women a little more 7 10.61%
25/84
it's about even 28 42.42%
28/84
who cares 14 21.21%
no way to tell 3 4.55%
17/84

Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 66.

different strokes for different folks, i have been with controlling women when I was younger, and now that I am 10 years older my GF is younger by 8 years, I enjoy being a little in charge but we are pretty equal in the way we think.

Most women like the guy to be in charge but respectful.

I think it differs from one relationship to another. No real way to pin point one race IMO

That's easy, men are pigs and women are the root of all evil. And crazy. Blanket statements and gross generalizations are somewhat pointless. People take advantage of people, it takes all kinds. Exercise good judgement in your associations and you can greatly limit your exposure to those who would take advantage of you.

That's easy, men are pigs and women are the root of all evil. And crazy. Blanket statements and gross generalizations are somewhat pointless. People take advantage of people, it takes all kinds. Exercise good judgement in your associations and you can greatly limit your exposure to those who would take advantage of you. Originally Posted by Austin Liv

Liv - I respect your opinion. And you do make good points. But some of us, both male and female seem to learn the "hard" way, and not just with "one lesson".

This really is not a hobby question, but it does occur in the hobby world too in my observations.
And about 40+% agree with you....but there is that small minority who see "roses" everywhere?

So, if men are pigs, why are you sucking and fucking pigs? Just need the $$??

How sad! It does take all kinds, doesn't it!

CSI

That's easy, men are pigs and women are the root of all evil. And crazy. Blanket statements and gross generalizations are somewhat pointless. People take advantage of people, it takes all kinds. Exercise good judgement in your associations and you can greatly limit your exposure to those who would take advantage of you. Originally Posted by Austin Liv

CSI, at least Austin Liv is being honest... how many of the ladies really enjoy fucking pigs like me and or others??? a small percantage are nymphos and would it anyway and prefer to make money doing it. the majority are women who use this as a means to an end.... nothing wrong with that.

i am and other hobbyists are taking advantage of the women's needs or wants for cash and the providers are taking advantage of the hobbyists who needs sex or is lonley...

thank goodness for the hobby baby!

I won't waste my time on men or women that are just users and haters. Why waste your time with people like that? I have better things to do then to use up my so called friends and give empty promises and hope.
You'll find bad and good in BOTH sexes.
A vulture is a vulture no matter what sex it is.

I remember a group of guys from Dallas when I was an agency owner. Talked to them on the phone and they wanted me to send a girl to them that they were interested in. They proceeded to tell me how this GROUP of guys would set her up in a place and all get a try at her...training her they told me. Once they had their fill of her they'd all give her good reviews... I see one on this board, one that I talked to. I think those guys are PIGSs of the lowest order. So be carful about name calling, I still remember our conversation with you and your buddy's.
And yes, I warned the lady to stay away from Dallas and your group. She's doing very well and all her reviews are honest and earned, not given for freebies.
But then again, there have been women that have tried to cheat the system and put up false reviews and cheat the men out of their money. Bait and switch too!
It's up to YOU to keep yourself safe in this hobby of ours. Keep your head, do your homework and you'll have fun instead of being ripped off.

So, if men are pigs, why are you sucking and fucking pigs? Just need the $$??

How sad! It does take all kinds, doesn't it!

CSI Originally Posted by CSI

Austin Liv was being fasicious.

I answered the poll as follows:

I am Male

Men take advantage of women all the time

Women take advantage of men all the time

Men maybe just a little bit more.

Everytime there is an arrangement to meet in this hobby, there is an inherrant understanding for everybody to get out of the appointment the most you can. You are mostly considering your own needs. There is not an overwhelming amount of altruism going on here.

Men are historically better at getting their way.

If you treat the person you are meeting with care and respect, everybody can leave the engagement feeling good about what happened.

I guess I am just naive, but I alwas want both of us to enjoy the session. I pay for the time, but once the transaction is completed the it is time to play and that is for both of us.