can anyone give me the lowdown on the easiest way for me to handle referrals from/for providers? i realize that providers will have different levels of needs for this (and that some are more responsive to inquiries than others) but if i wanted to get something together /once/ by asking women for a vouch is there a good way to handle this?
for instance on P411 there is a section where you can request a vouch from providers on /that/ site which seems nice and permanent (not sure if i have to keep my membership going year after year after year to keep this available though...).
but right now for other providers and i am not sure if i need to give out a set of phone number and email addresses and hope the previous provider gets back to the prospective provider - or how best to handle this.
also, if i am looking to get cleared by two or three providers this means a previous acquaintance has to field a lot of incoming mail or phone calls and we all have lives. i realize that some women will absolutely have to speak in person with a previous reference or two but short of that what is the proper etiquette and easiest way to manage this? can i get an email from providers i have seen and forward these? other suggestions?
TIA