Tipping

Do y’all tip? How much would you tip a standard provider for FS? Or massage? Curious to see what’s the norm. I’m in the gulf south for reference and I typically tip 20% or more for any service of any kind.

There is no standard, all depends on the quality of the service being provided & the base rate. I've never gone by a percentage.

I ha e mixed feelings about tipping. We are all paying a professional wage equivalent to an attorney or a CPA. Do you tip your attorney or CPA?

However, for providers who have gone the extra mile or made a special request for me....then yes.

But, if she shows up in a tshirt has a list of no's, doesnt let's me live out my fantasy, and is mechanical bang out the nut. No way I am tipping!

I normally do not tip unless the provider goes over on time, or does something more than what is in the ad. (ie if she offers me a quality cocktail)

Self employed people keep the fee for themselves and set their prices. I usually don’t tip owners! Employees do not get the fee or set the price. I tip them! Owners should command a just fee and do their best because their name is on the product. Employees should be rewarded for their efforts!

I normally do not tip unless the provider goes over on time, or does something more than what is in the ad. (ie if she offers me a quality cocktail) Originally Posted by slowmover

Let's say she does go over time but you've only brought the rate for the time you booked. How do you make it up to her? P4 allows you to buy points that can be used for advertising, but to me that seems like a limited option. Do you instead send her, say, a gift card? Is a return visit enough of a thank you? Do you bring extra for that return visit?

Let's say she does go over time but you've only brought the rate for the time you booked. How do you make it up to her? P4 allows you to buy points that can be used for advertising, but to me that seems like a limited option. Do you instead send her, say, a gift card? Is a return visit enough of a thank you? Do you bring extra for that return visit? Originally Posted by secondHandNews

If she doesn't give you a clue or hint it's time to go and you haven't stayed on purpose, running over is on her as much as you and a tip wouldn't be required. This is my opinion only.

I ha e mixed feelings about tipping. We are all paying a professional wage equivalent to an attorney or a CPA. Do you tip your attorney or CPA?

However, for providers who have gone the extra mile or made a special request for me....then yes.

But, if she shows up in a tshirt has a list of no's, doesnt let's me live out my fantasy, and is mechanical bang out the nut. No way I am tipping! Originally Posted by Fizley

I totally agree. I used to tip, but now days providers rates make up for the tip.

Closest I ever got to tipping was emailing a Victoria Secret digital gift card to a regular with instructions to buy 1 of 3 specific sets, her choice, before our next date. Next day she sent me dressing room mirror pics of 2 of the sets and insisted I pick based on her photos. Nice little bonus before our date.

The providers make their own donation rates. If they expect a tip over the donation, they need to raise the rate, or do what many do now, nickel and dime for certain services that are usually a given when it comes to GFE.

I have always said the best tip you give a provider is a referral or better yet, a repeat visit. Of course, in order to get that future business, she has to make a great first impression!

Let's say she does go over time but you've only brought the rate for the time you booked. How do you make it up to her? P4 allows you to buy points that can be used for advertising, but to me that seems like a limited option. Do you instead send her, say, a gift card? Is a return visit enough of a thank you? Do you bring extra for that return visit? Originally Posted by secondHandNews

You can get a Visa card and send her the info or a Amazon card and do the same .

Nope, i mean her is her rate. Unless it's for greek,video or something else that is extra.

If she doesn't give you a clue or hint it's time to go and you haven't stayed on purpose, running over is on her as much as you and a tip wouldn't be required. This is my opinion only. Originally Posted by slowmover

Unfortunately, it’s usually on purpose, and they know damn well what they’re doing. That’s why we need the donation up front. When a regular client normally books an hour, but decides on 30 minutes this time, but stays an hour, and left the 30 minute donation, THEY KNOW. (True story)

As for tips, they’re not expected. One of my favorites, used to bring chocolates from Sweden. It was so nice and much appreciated. A lot of guys are really thoughtful.💜

Usually something along the lines of, "do you want to take a shower?" or "would you like a water for the drive" is a good signal. Or getting dressed, LOL.

At the rates they charge..lol tips. Whatever.