Hello all,
I am a newbie to this website, not to the hobby.
Was asked for Ref# when I tried too set up appointment.
I am not sure what that is, any help would be appricated.
Providers screen - Safety. How they screen may differ, but be prepared to either provide P411 info or references (name, e-mail, phone, way the provider would remember you, etc) of well known ladies you've seen.
If you have neither, you may still be able to see a lady but you're off in the realm of looking for "Newbie Friendly" (yes, they exist) - they usually screen differently.
Good luck!