To RubyRed: I Don't Take To Being Threatened, So Consider This Game On

Ruby, I got your "one warning" about never posting anything about you again, and obviously, there are some things about guys you don't quite understand. All humans have a flight or fight instinct. The thing to understand about guys is that 90% of the time, we will choose to fight when threatened, even if we think we might take a beating during the course of it.

Let' catch our viewing audience up to date first.

I've always liked redheads, and Ruby made the bucket list early on. Back in March though, someone posted a No DATY ? thread in ML about Ruby. It was confirmed she was no DATY, but 2 or 3 YMMV comments were posted by some of the guys. While saddened, I kept a little hope up. Jump forward in time to last Tuesday and I decide to see if Ruby has any time slots available.

A couple side notes here:

1). I love DATY. I see a good looking kitty, and my mouth starts watering like a Saint Bernard. I don't know why, it just is what it is. So needless to say, DATY is a major part of the experience for me, along with DFK and CFS. Not only do I enjoy it, but I view it as my way of trying to give back some pleasure to the provider. Even if the lady doesn't "O", she gets a chance to take a break and relax and hopefully enjoy a nice little kitty tongue bath.

2). If you look at Ruby's p411 site, you will see several things. She says she is very bi, encourages guys to bring along women, loves greek, and her menu lists bi/couples/greek and 41 other activities. Missing is DATY and YMMV.

3). I'm a huge believer in providers rights to decline certain activities or to be YMMV on some of them. I totally support this no matter what the ladies reasons are. All I ask for is honesty and transparency. Don't wait until a client gets to your incall to inform him of these limitations. If you tell me before I get to the incall that you only let about half the guys kiss you, I can make an informed decision whether to see you. If I go for it and then you want nothing to do with kissing me, that was my risk and I have no right to get bent out of shape.

Back to the appointment request on Tuesday.

Ruby indicates she has an opening, and I then proceed to mention that I saw DATY was missing from her menu. Was this intentional, and was it a potential YMMV issue? She lets me know it is intentional and never YMMV. She proceeds to let me know the reason for no DATY is to keep her healthy. I mention I would never want a lady to to do anything she wasn't totally enthusiastic about. I let her know this is a big item for me and say I need to think about, and will text her back that evening.

On my way home I come to the conclusion that its crazy for me to pay any amount of money and not get one of the main three things that I want in this hobby. So when I get home, I text her back that I decided DATY was to important to me and that I was going to pass on the appointment. I then say I'm sorry if I've wasted her time, have a good evening and stay safe. Total time spent is probably five minutes, and not once was I impolite. Ruby quickly responds that I did waste her time and that I should delete her number. I responded by saying that I apologized if I said something to offend her, and that I was not trying to tick her off. Never got a response.

Jump forward to Monday, when someone posts a review on Ruby. http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...hlight=rubyred

One of the guys posts the question of whether or not Ruby is MSOG. I respond back that it is listed on her p411 menu. It is while doing this that I remember her comment about loving greek and the fact that it is listed on her menu. The funny thing was, having looked at 8 - 10 of her reviews, I couldn't remember a single account of someone saying they had done it. With the amount of rabid butt pirates on this site, I found that odd, so I mention it in hopes one of the guys will provide some info. The other thing I noticed about this review was the complete lack of any mention of DATY.

Now here's the thing to not loose sight of ladies (and I don't believe hardly any of you do), this is a male oriented review site about our time spent with ladies. It is supposed to be the complete and unvarnished truth. Unfortunately, there are a lot of guys on here who try to curry favor and don't give honest reviews. You then end up with situations like I had last week where I saw a lady from here whose showcase displays a 25 yo at 105 lbs, and I walked into a room with a 30 yo at 140lbs. Needless to say, I wasn't too happy with either the bait n switch provider or the 4 suck up reviewers who said nothing.

Unfortunately for Ruby, I'm not a suck up. As I was already posting in the thread, i added a short NO DATY notice and a quick waring about how she responds to being turned down.

Jump forward to 5:00 AM this morning when I find my hobby phone was blowing up last night for five minutes straight due to one Rubyred proving that yes, redheads do have fiery tempers. Names like pathetic, ignorant, disrespectful, distasteful and rude go flying. Unfortunately, she ends it with a warning never to post about her again, and threatens to post my info to all the providers.

Now here's the part you're not going to like Ruby, I've got some advice for you:

1). Quit acting like you have one up on us guys because you always know what we are writing. 90% of providers on here either have an alternate account with direct access, or some pussy whipped WK who forwards every post like a little bitch. The only reason any of us post in private tags is to watch certain providers try to dance around the truth that they have multiple accounts.

2). Just because you can text 120 wpm doesn't mean that you should. Give your brain a chance to filter that redheaded temper. Your pissy response after I very politely turned you down was the Genesis of this situation your in. Flying off at the handle about a truthful remark made on an escort review site isn't helping yourself. Either don't give someone a reason to write something, or grow a thicker skin.

3). Most importantly, don't ever freakin threaten me again. I'm definitely not a person you want to travel down that rabbit hole with.

You bring up some great points! Hate those bastards who dodge the truth about a providers size/look in their reviews. Threats are a No, No..I hate drama and I think most guys do as well.

Ruby, I got your "one warning" about never posting anyth....... Originally Posted by citizen44

Is Greek still an upcharge?

Is Greek still an upcharge? Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

Not according to p411

Dude, take it easy. I'm no Rubyred wk - I saw her several times a few years back and always had a great time (of course I got to munch on the fire bush) but she didn't care for it then and apparently it's a no go now. Your call to see her or not. Where I think you need to take it easy is when a list of activities isn't 100% accurate when you get there. If it's listed and then not accurate, just point it out and move on. These things even out, I believe. I think ymmv is underused anyway as there are a lot of variables to good fucking and even with the same provider some sessions are better than others. I am the same way - sometimes I'm a fucking machine, sometimes I go soft on the second round. Anyway - happy hobbying - and if you really like eating pussy say a prayer Alondra comes back. Best daty recipient ever!

What'd she threaten you with? Unwashed snatch?

Dude, take it easy. I'm no Rubyred wk - I saw her several times a few years back and always had a great time (of course I got to munch on the fire bush) but she didn't care for it then and apparently it's a no go now. Your call to see her or not. Where I think you need to take it easy is when a list of activities isn't 100% accurate when you get there. If it's listed and then not accurate, just point it out and move on. These things even out, I believe. I think ymmv is underused anyway as there are a lot of variables to good fucking and even with the same provider some sessions are better than others. I am the same way - sometimes I'm a fucking machine, sometimes I go soft on the second round. Anyway - happy hobbying - and if you really like eating pussy say a prayer Alondra comes back. Best daty recipient ever! Originally Posted by tbone77494

You raise a good point. Edited for brevity

So you felt threatened over a slew of texts over a phone?

Damn....I'm in the air for 50 minutes.....and THIS?

Not taking sides here and a part of me can understand but man I just don't know how you cats have the energy for the daily drama. Once I leave corporate America for the day I'm looking for ways to lighten the mental load.

Let me help cut the tension: ;-)

Who is mas macho? Ruby, or the OP? Who's the wussy, of those two?

You know what a capon is, Citizen?

Not taking sides here and a part of me can understand but man I just don't know how you cats have the energy for the daily drama. Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

It's all just a clever ploy to draw attention while HB sneaks the N girls back in and pxmcc and Spice get set up for a cage fight. Personally, my money is on Spice. Hippos kill more people in Africa than all the other animals combined.