Question for ladies and gents...

I received a PM this morning from an ECCIE member asking about the screening process for the M&G at my place.

It seemed...off - Is it just me? I did not respond and just hit delete.

This is why...He registered 2 days ago, he has NO posts...not even in the welcome area, and seemed 'way too eager'.

Are many newbies this anxious to have their face out there at a M&G when they haven't even met one provider yet?


I really want to do this thing...I'm quite sure it will be a blast, especially with the "Anything Goes" twist to it, BUT...I cannot emphasize enough...
Screening will be required and carried out...

Good for you Jaye! Sounds fishy to me as well.

He may have just joined because a provider told him about the site after he visited her
But still screen!{lol}

I think you did the right thing, just me though. Absolutely screen!!! My first hobby experience is not going to be an all out event, like this is sounding to become. Just my .02

Thanks all....I'm trusting your advice...
Dallas, if he should PM me again, I'll ask for his references FIRST...if your not listed...I'm hitting delete again, J/K!

Thanks again you guys!!!!
YOU ARE ALL SO AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

always better safe than sorry right?

yes--always screen & go with your initial gut feeling!

kisses Miss j!!!

I would have done the same thing...

Sounds like ya did the right thing. How's the saying go "it's easier to ask for forgivness than it is to get permission"

Its hard being a newbie. I'm less nevous about a first date then I am about the hobby. You ladies are so beautiful and skilled and sometimes thats alot for a guy.I'm still waiting for my first time.....and its the nervs that keep me from pulling the trigger yet. Its like credit.....no one wants to give you any unless you already have some.

Its hard being a newbie. I'm less nevous about a first date then I am about the hobby. You ladies are so beautiful and skilled and sometimes thats alot for a guy.I'm still waiting for my first time.....and its the nervs that keep me from pulling the trigger yet. Its like credit.....no one wants to give you any unless you already have some. Originally Posted by Thanos

I agree, I haven't tried to be with a provider yet cause most want references and being my first time I don't have any, but totally understand the process. I have done an amp once that was my first hobby experience. Just working my way in slowly I guess lol.

Its hard being a newbie. I'm less nevous about a first date then I am about the hobby. You ladies are so beautiful and skilled and sometimes thats alot for a guy.I'm still waiting for my first time.....and its the nervs that keep me from pulling the trigger yet. Its like credit.....no one wants to give you any unless you already have some. Originally Posted by Thanos

you are already verified ok in my book...lol

yes you will get newbies wanting to come to these types of things as i have handled 2 on NOLA sidea already! Most are very comfortable calling and talking to you as a way for you to decide. I always get a "keen gut instinct" by listening to the way one talks.
Thanos, i had sent you a invite but you couldnt go i guess. you cant just delete things like that J cuz these newbies are just like the rest of the guys...eager to be pleased or just get a grip on the game so to speak. tell them that you would like to give them a chance and be curt with what you say. if they dont respond back, fuck em!

and yes THANOS you are verified by DALLAS and I both!

Just my thots. If you want to get and be verified, and I sure most have been lurking for sometime, you have to get out there and make that call. I have never had anyone not try and work with me. Most of these ladies are being good business people and protecting their safety as well as ours. You can wan wan all you want or you can just get off your and make it happen. P411, is a affordable way of making that happen. No this is not a infomercial for that site, but I found the easiest thing about the hobby is getting verified.

Now about the subject at hand I think a private residence sounds like a great idea, Keep me informed