My recent review thread ...

First off I think everyone here knows that anything that is said on these boards is "hear say". There are always 2 sides of every story. Some will believe everything they hear and others will have more sense then that.

About me, noooo I'm not a grumpy, cold, mechanical,a bitch (as i was called in the review thread). I am actually a very nice,responsible, and harding working mother. And I am glad I can sit here and say there are people on these boards that do know me in real life. I do have things about myself that may affect some of my sessions but thats because I am not a fake putting on some show nor am I going to put up with crap in fear that a bad review will get put up about me. I guess in some ways your milage may vary with me and I am being honest about this. I am picky..VERY picky. When in session with me if you aint clean..i aint gonna wanna get close to you nor am I going to ask you to clean up. We are all grown adults here and should be way past that by now. I value my health and safety and you should value yours to, if you ask me to put myself in any unsafe situation, i will tell you NO ! We all have things we don't like done to us (example: if someone does something I dont like, I politely say" i'm sorry, i dont really like that, but you can do this instead".) Us providers go through a lot sometimes ! I have had many many good reviews on both aspd and eccie over the past 5 years, but most people choose to see the bad. The bad reviews get more views from people then the good ones do. And really it causes a lot of curiosity of people. Ever wonder what it would be like if providers could review clients ? Some would have ego boosted and others would get embarressed. Nobody likes a bad review but there is always another side of the story to be told (especially if the percentage of good reviews are higher than the bad). The few guys who get mad and put up a bad review cause they pushed my buttons or didnt have their way, the reviews don't affect me. I have been around far to long to be affected because alot of clients on here know me and most dont post cause they choose to stay out of the drama. I can respect that ! It would be nice if clients would send a provider an email later if they sensed there was something they did or said to offend the lady. Like , if there was something I could have done or said ...how could I do it better next time ? It's kinda hard cause we are all diffeent people and like/hate different things. Thats my input on that....

And to fredloveshead...i didn't send you a rude pm ...i could copy n paste it here for everyone to see...but all i said was to your remark about me having a posting on a sugar daddy sight was "SO?" Who cares ? What I post and where I post is my business and how do you know I dont have a job during the day as a cashier ? When was the last time I was available during the day? Either way, none of your business. Sheesh, I feel like I am being watched online. I like sugar daddy arrangements and feel there is nothing wrong with them. If it makes me happy thats all that matters! That made me wanna play "roll out" by Ludacris !

And someone else mentioned they saw me at a night club and chose not to see me because of the group of people I was with ?? LMFAO !!! I cant even remember the last time I went out !! Actually yes I do and it was with 2 very reputable providers here...yearssssss ago ! One was even a moderator.

And get off my signature people !! Omg, I have had that for yearsssss and it's just a saying or a quote ! It's not directed towards anyone in particular. It's getting to be as bad as Myspace where people are getting offended about who's on the top ten friends list lol !

Okay, my time limit is up on here for the day.....

If the negative reviews don't affect you why post this response? Where there's smoke there's fire...............

BTW, you misspelled haters....j/k..........

Tha post wasn't about the reviews really, it was more about what I am really like as a person.

glad to see you postin & speakin out for yourself

I hate that song but I love the part that goes:

"my business, my business.....stay the fuck up out my business...'CAUSE IT'S MINE OH MINE!"


I find it true how the negative on this board gets the most response.
Someone pm'ed me the other day and said good to see you posting, I've also heard I like what you have to say on the boards. But the truth is I don't post because it's obvious that people don't really give a damn about what I have to say and will probably get it twisted anyway.

Ex.: In my postsecrets.com tread I implied I didn't marry a client because he lived a lifestyle that would raise eyebrows if I were by his side ("I liked him a lot but I was terrified about what people would think when they saw us together. I know it's horrible but true.") Can you believe some pm'ed me and asked me "so you don't want to be seen in public with a white guy? LOL!" Ridiculous.

I do notice that some ladies post every other day about something trivial get tons of positive response. I know that some of you would like to think of us as one dimensional but we are more than that. I have ton's more to say but I feel that my thoughts would be appreciated on other avenues so I'll stop here.

I believe there are three sides to every story, your side, his side, and the truth.

I think many posters take their bad day out on this board. I know I am guilty!!!! as charged.
But now I am more kinder, gentler person, my job was making me into someone I really was not..

I cant count how many times, a new Provider I was seeing would say " wow, you are so nice in person", I figured you were an asshole since you post like one....

I was always surprised by those comments.. I thought to myself: why did you even see me if you thought I was an asshole?? I guess the were giving me the benefit of doubt.

In the Army we always advise everyone that there are no thin skins at the After Action Review

I thought to myself: why did you even see me if you thought I was an asshole?? I guess the were giving me the benefit of doubt. Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

Money talks much louder than anything any of us can post....

sixx

Angela,

I already know that you're pleasant and wonderful and all those synonyms. You won me over even before our session. If I see a bad review on a provider saying the provider was grumpy, rude, stuck-up and I have met the lady and know her to be the opposite I just ignore the review. I do know that when a hobbyist is pissed off in a session sometimes he makes up stuff to sort of mar the provider's business. I'm not saying this is what happened but I already made my decision of how great Angela is

Angela,

I already know that you're pleasant and wonderful and all those synonyms. You won me over even before our session. If I see a bad review on a provider saying the provider was grumpy, rude, stuck-up and I have met the lady and know her to be the opposite I just ignore the review. I do know that when a hobbyist is pissed off in a session sometimes he makes up stuff to sort of mar the provider's business. I'm not saying this is what happened but I already made my decision of how great Angela is Originally Posted by geniusman

Thanks and I enjoy your company as well. And when stuff is made up there is not much us providers can do to tell others our version of the ROS. And the part about shakin up the providers business, yea I agree with you there. Not much else they can do but run to the computer and type. Won't really do much if the provider has been around a while and is established with many regulars either. I just wanted to post up why I am the way I am. It's either take me as I am...or don't take me at all.

If the negative reviews don't affect you why post this response? Where there's smoke there's fire...............

BTW, you misspelled haters....j/k.......... Originally Posted by Pflugerbill

I saw your comment in the review thread. Why do you say "She's perfect and all of us are at fault ? I am not trying to say I'm perfect or point fingers at anyone saying everything is their fault. I am simply just saying how I am as a person in real life.