bad for business bullshit

hey i was made aware (by a random member, idk his name) via text from an inquiring eccie hobbyist that there was a post on the mens locker room section that he'd just seen had actually dissuaded him from keeping the appt. I have many good friends that I've made through the hobby, and I asked one to please go check it out and see what was up. They sent me the post. It was a kind of frenzied rant from an ex roommate of mine who seems to have developed maybe a substance issue or demon possession, but who is, at any rate, not telling the truth about some pretty heavy allegations of criminal mischief while simultaneously calling me (face in particular) ugly, busted, scary and calling into question my mental health and speculating on my innermost thoughts regarding the hobby and all hobbyists as a whole, which of course he couldnt know.This person and I have never been intimate, no sex ever, I've personally always found him a little more smug and condescending than he had the right to be, also very dirty in his sexual habits, and was always disinclined to investigate anything sexual with him.
And he had a cat. I mean, guys with cats...idk..lol
Heres the thing:I provide a good service, I dont misrepresent myself in ads or pics, dont swindle or cheat or steal. I dont offer BBFS, I'm never stoned or fucked up in session, I may be a very bad girl but I happen to be a very good provider. This person wrote this the day after I registered on the site. I mean,really?I dont know what provoked this but its untrue and unfair that I cant really do shit about it. Can it be taken down? Is what I wanna know.

Unless you rat out the leaker, you are about to go on vacation.

Condescending because you should be kept away from any new ladies? Look at the name of this site: Escort Client COMMUNICATION and INFORMATION EXCHANGE. I didn't fuck you because I'm not attracted to you physically or personally.

As for your character, here is an example. I loaned you money to get your TV out of hock with your ex-bf before you lost it. Then when I ask to get repaid, you tell me that a "normal pawn situation" is 30 days to pay. I wasn't trying to be your pawnbroker, just loan you the cash for a day. Then at 30 days, you tell me that you are not going to pay me back. Why? Because this guy, who I barely know, came over from jail and asked if you were open to a date. I told him to go talk to you about it. That was all I ever had to do with it. I was just trying to refer someone to you. I could have sent him to his usual gal, Lexxi Baby, but I wanted to help you out. He leaves an hour later without having given you any presents. You asked him if I had taken care of him without checking the truth of that with me. He--unsurprisingly--said yes. I had no arrangement with him, he had given me

Then while I slept, you and your friend J*** moved the TV out. And you or he stole my Ray-Bans. Then you pathetically tried to blame Baby Bottle Pop for stealing them! You knew full well that she had only tried them on, told me she liked them, put them down in front of both of us, and then left with you while I went to sleep. No one else was there from then until the Ray-Bans were gone three hours later, along with what was (and still is) by all rights my TV.

And you know that same best friend of yours came over and sold me, Hunter, and Paige some flowers and then stole them back as he went out the door, because he told you he did so and gave you half of them for your birthday.

The last time I had seen you before my car burned to the ground was the day that you told Ophelia I had left to go retrieve Ophelia's stolen car back for her. She did not need to know where I was. You running your mouth caused her to then judge that I was taking too long to do her this favor. Then you aided and abetted her taking every item of value out of my house and hiding it elsewhere on my property. You did nothing to stop her or warn me. Thankfully Jenna Joy/Nadia Lux did. All you did was read my private Facebook communications to Paige. You then posed as me and tried to make it look as if I was insulting her instead of yourself. All I had told Paige essentially was what I have said to your face many times: you are a horrible date.

You do not put in your updates on any sites ever the lengthy list of things you will not do on a date, i.e., you don't kiss, and the worst is that you end the date asap if a guy gets too excited early. I have heard the way you talk to and about your dates, so yes there is a way for me to know how you feel about them. You have expressed numerous times that you hate 99% of your dates and that you never get asked out a second time. And these feelings were directly and expressly confirmed by your own words to me.

As for my car being burned. I never said you did it, just that you were a prime suspect. As soon as you heard that Paige was at my place, you suddenly pop back up on the scene asking me for something you can get anywhere. You do not show up that night, but do text the next night, asking if I am going to be home. I am not, but I get home two hours later to my car burned to the ground. You then text 30 minutes later asking if I am home yet. I tell you that I am, but then somehow you forget why you were originally coming and offer up that you have an alibi? And said alibi is the same guy who I later find out was the one who stole from us and had Ophelia's van. And despite being 4 blocks away, you don't come until the next morning. All you wanted to do was talk shit about Paige. Ths notion that my car caught fire on from a wiring issue when it was raining is ludicrous.

And I won't even go into detail the disaster that you made Paige's last place. How many times did you go to jail for what you did over there?

I could have written every word of that in co-ed if you would have preferred me to do so.

And my Burmese cat, Ruthie B, is almost as fucking awesome as her namesake on the US Supreme Court. She goes for rides in the car, plays fetch, goes for walks on a leash, is never ever scared or mean, can jump from the back of my couch into the ceiling, kicked the crap out of Tatum Bailey's pitbull (a sweet dog but still damn impressive from a seven pound cat), and is gorgeous.

You said you didn't even want the dog you stole from your ex and made live with you in your nasty truck whose windshield you had smashed out in frustration at his being with her, as you repeatedly terrorized that man because Paige was with him after you: spraypaint, sledgehammering your way into his office, etc. Wait I said I was not going to get into that. Whoops.

It may be vacations all around? Wow..

hey i was made aware (by a random member, idk his name) via text from an inquiring eccie hobbyist that there was a post on the mens locker room section that he'd just seen had actually dissuaded him from keeping the appt.
That is one LONG sentence.
You better get your memory straight because if site rules are followed, you are going to have to cough up that "random/eccie hobbyist" or go on a long vacation.
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Can it be taken down? Is what I wanna know.
If your train of thought stays as it is in this post, not a chance. RARELY are such things pulled or edited. Originally Posted by LollyGagginsATX

It may be vacations all around? Wow.. Originally Posted by winn dixie

Maybe. The respondent would definitely gave his side of the story to where, at least, this thread can be closed.

Caveat: I'm not a mod in this area. I am speaking as a Female Member.

I would hope that if someone actively asked a member of the opposite sex to break site rules, then there would be consequences - even if they give up the other person.

Posting here was a BAD IDEA. All around.

It may be vacations all around? Wow.. Originally Posted by winn dixie

They are about to travel more than James Harden on a stepback 3

This thread is not appropriate for this forum. Moving to COED but closing it as we are definitely done here.