When Private Information is Used Against Me

I had an ECCIE member I had not seen before schedule an appointment for yesterday at 3:00pm. I had to cancel it because my monthly cycle had not yet ceased which it usually doesn't last as long. I explained why and offered to book him tomorrow and he says he doesn't have time tomorrow and then says, "Last I checked, your monthly visitor is fairly common."

Now since I am not permitted to know what the members discuss regarding my business with everyone with access to the forum, is that seriously something acceptable to be shared without my permission?

Should this member be sharing the in detail conversations that take place in the men's lounge about my menstrual cycle with me?

This is just, in my opinion, disgusting that the members discuss such topics in the first place but then to have a member share this information with me to implicate that I may be using my natural monthly uterine lining shedding as an excuse not to see clients?

Am I not supposed to be upfront and instead see them and let them gruesomely discover for themselves that I have a potentially undesirable natural female occurrence which may totally sicken them?

How do I have some sort of freedom to take time off, reschedule or cancel sessions due to something beyond my control and not get the client upset? I can't make it stop, rescheduling wasn't good enough and neither was a discount. He was still upset, likely wrote about it on info share, and damaged my reputation because if something beyond my control.

Is this fair?

One more inquiry, if I were to stop members from reviewing me, can they still post whatever they want on info share and ROS?

I say his loss. Hell, I would have gone for it anyway!

I would have liked to know and would have understood the cancellation. Some issues will be discussed whether we like it or not just because someone wants to comment.Trying to use it against someone else is unfair in my opinion.

If this was the case for the cancelation, then why has she been posting ads on Back Page.

http://kc.backpage.com/TherapeuticMa...relax/12340058

To book clients for when I am done bleeding Jeeves. I suggest you stay really far away from me copter. This was a question of the staff. If I want an answer from you I will give you a free rub and tug.

To book clients for when I am done bleeding Jeeves. I suggest you stay really far away from me copter. This was a question for the staff. If I want an answer from you I will give you a free rub and tug.

I could be wrong, but if you advertise here, you open yourself up to reviews whether you want them or not.

What?!?! Lol credit checks? You are severely mistaken, Sir. No one used anyone accept you. I never asked you to buy me anything yet you kept dropping stuff by my house and expecting me to give you free "pops". User?? I paid you $50 cash in return for your stuff I never asked for! Don't you dare accuse me of things you have clue about. You got pissed off at me because I wouldn't tell you the identities of providers or clients who were talking trash about you. Bottom line! Everyone knows your behavior is "bizarre" and right here is an example. I paid you and have a SIGNED CONTRACT BY YOU THAT I PAID YOU FOR ALL OF THE STUFF YOU KEPT DROPPING OFF, some of which I had to throw in the trash because it was JUNK. How many people would do what I did?? Cash money I paid to you and you signed a contract that you are not owed any additional monies or services for the "items" you brought me.

Stop trying to start drama because NO ONE BELIEVES You! Credit reports please! Just ask the providers, I get refs copter.

SINCE EVERYONE READS THESE "QUESTIONS FOR THE STAFF", HAVE I EVER ASKED ANYONE FOR HIS OR HER SS NUMBER? No... That's what I thought.

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One more inquiry, if I were to stop members from reviewing me, can they still post whatever they want on info share and ROS? Originally Posted by Persianlilly

Majority of your initial message doesn't belong to 'Q's to staff. Coming to the above first part, you can request a no review policy if so you should not advertise anywhere else.

Coming to second part of the above, hobbyist (unlike some providers who can access ML) cannot see or read 'Infoshare'...simply put they don't have access, but they can discuss anything in ROS (I think you mean Mens Lounge).

Thank you

How can you see what he wrote in private?

I believe OPs can see it.

I believe OPs can see it. Originally Posted by Modda

You believe wrong sir...